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surviving rebuilding after emotional affair
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<blockquote data-quote="Jena" data-source="post: 198654" data-attributes="member: 4514"><p>thanks you guys are great. i'll figure it out somehow. i know what i want for my girls and i, i am very clear on that. yet i don't know if that includes him, or if i can ever trust him again, or if i want to put the effort in to do so. my gut tells me it wasn't physical maybe that's just my naivity talking yet he was never home late ever. yet to me whether it was physical or not hiding and lying the level of deception for so long is enough for me. </p><p></p><p>his definition and mine of "cheating" is quite different indeed. he thinks that talking to a girl, driving her home allowing her to be at his store, texting calling isn't a relationship. i said it's called an emotional affair, bottom line it became that when you lied to me about her repeatedly.</p><p></p><p>i'm just very tired now, long weekend with difficult child who is still awake at past midnight now and school's tmrw. and this stuff on my mind, difficult child's school, finding job and exactly how it's giong to work if we break up.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Jena, post: 198654, member: 4514"] thanks you guys are great. i'll figure it out somehow. i know what i want for my girls and i, i am very clear on that. yet i don't know if that includes him, or if i can ever trust him again, or if i want to put the effort in to do so. my gut tells me it wasn't physical maybe that's just my naivity talking yet he was never home late ever. yet to me whether it was physical or not hiding and lying the level of deception for so long is enough for me. his definition and mine of "cheating" is quite different indeed. he thinks that talking to a girl, driving her home allowing her to be at his store, texting calling isn't a relationship. i said it's called an emotional affair, bottom line it became that when you lied to me about her repeatedly. i'm just very tired now, long weekend with difficult child who is still awake at past midnight now and school's tmrw. and this stuff on my mind, difficult child's school, finding job and exactly how it's giong to work if we break up. [/QUOTE]
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