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<blockquote data-quote="Jena" data-source="post: 201051" data-attributes="member: 4514"><p>Star</p><p></p><p>You are too much, it's clearly been way way too long conversing with you!!!!! <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /> you really are soo sweet and full of hell!!!</p><p></p><p>I see your point trust me im not in the "bad boy" mode anymore........</p><p></p><p>I wait up because he closes the store late, i don't wait up because hes with other woman, that would truly be sooo sooo bad!!</p><p></p><p>He did emotional cheating yes i do not believe it was anything more than that. He needs a whole lot of therapy and to be honest we spent a long time today talking and just being honest with eachother. I said to him, yes you have done alot of great things for kids and I, partly due to your love for me, greatly due to your need to be needed by a woman and oh boy was i a mes and needy well over a year ago!!!! he's paid for testing for difficult child, bought me a new truck, pays our bills (rent here), bought kids school clothes for school, etc. </p><p></p><p>yet due to his challenges and there are soo many the need to be needed which leads him to save every other woman under the sun, his lying to cover up what he does and cover his tracks, the whole thing. so he said well what do you mean? i said well i'm not sure at this point other than i've done alot of my work and i do more and more everyday yet you wow your going to take years to get past your stuff.</p><p></p><p>it's just too much i think. i want to be happy before i'm 50 in a relationship with someone. and right now 40 is around the corner and according to my records you needa lot of help. i will not lie to you i do love him, and will miss him terribly if i do this. </p><p></p><p>i'm truly not taking scraps though, i entered into something that i shouldnt' of, i can use excuse of difficult child's issues, financial their all true yet at end of day i am totally responsible for my decisions in life be them good or bad.</p><p></p><p>he is always where he's supposed to be, yes he drove home waitress chic 3 times as per him could of been a whole lot more who knows...</p><p></p><p>it's partly due to difficult child's stability at this point, and partly due to my love for him, that i'm wavering a bit. i am just scared i think with no job right now and i do not want to make a mistake.</p><p></p><p><img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Jena, post: 201051, member: 4514"] Star You are too much, it's clearly been way way too long conversing with you!!!!! :) you really are soo sweet and full of hell!!! I see your point trust me im not in the "bad boy" mode anymore........ I wait up because he closes the store late, i don't wait up because hes with other woman, that would truly be sooo sooo bad!! He did emotional cheating yes i do not believe it was anything more than that. He needs a whole lot of therapy and to be honest we spent a long time today talking and just being honest with eachother. I said to him, yes you have done alot of great things for kids and I, partly due to your love for me, greatly due to your need to be needed by a woman and oh boy was i a mes and needy well over a year ago!!!! he's paid for testing for difficult child, bought me a new truck, pays our bills (rent here), bought kids school clothes for school, etc. yet due to his challenges and there are soo many the need to be needed which leads him to save every other woman under the sun, his lying to cover up what he does and cover his tracks, the whole thing. so he said well what do you mean? i said well i'm not sure at this point other than i've done alot of my work and i do more and more everyday yet you wow your going to take years to get past your stuff. it's just too much i think. i want to be happy before i'm 50 in a relationship with someone. and right now 40 is around the corner and according to my records you needa lot of help. i will not lie to you i do love him, and will miss him terribly if i do this. i'm truly not taking scraps though, i entered into something that i shouldnt' of, i can use excuse of difficult child's issues, financial their all true yet at end of day i am totally responsible for my decisions in life be them good or bad. he is always where he's supposed to be, yes he drove home waitress chic 3 times as per him could of been a whole lot more who knows... it's partly due to difficult child's stability at this point, and partly due to my love for him, that i'm wavering a bit. i am just scared i think with no job right now and i do not want to make a mistake. :) [/QUOTE]
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