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Sweet Betsy-What to say or not say or do?
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<blockquote data-quote="Marcie Mac" data-source="post: 431396" data-attributes="member: 47"><p>I have seen this a total of 5 times from SO's neice T - addicted to drugs - two babies with really bad emotional problems his sister has taken custody of - pregnant with 3rd when she came our way wanting to get straight - asked us to think about taking the baby - we didn't (well, I did but SO said absolutely NOT) In hindsight he was right - she moved to Mexico as the feds were looking for her in connection with the boyfriend transporting illegal aliens- can't come back here unless she deals with a realllyyyy long prison sentance, gave birth to the baby,and then went on to have two more - all of them with mental health issues. His sister will end up with those three as well - he, his mom and I send out positive vibes into the universe that his sister stays healthy.</p><p> </p><p>The stories in the paper abound about abused bio children and adopted children comming into the world and having tragic ends to their little lives - I would probably councel her to terminate (no hate mail please) and later on down the road when she is stable, revist the having a baby issue. She already has a beautiful little boy living elsewhere due to her bad choices. And so many drug addicted women end up with less than desirable partners in life.</p><p> </p><p>What a mess these kids can make of their lives sometimes <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite3" alt=":(" title="Frown :(" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":(" /> Am so sorry you have to have any kind of "what to do" talk </p><p> </p><p>Marcie</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Marcie Mac, post: 431396, member: 47"] I have seen this a total of 5 times from SO's neice T - addicted to drugs - two babies with really bad emotional problems his sister has taken custody of - pregnant with 3rd when she came our way wanting to get straight - asked us to think about taking the baby - we didn't (well, I did but SO said absolutely NOT) In hindsight he was right - she moved to Mexico as the feds were looking for her in connection with the boyfriend transporting illegal aliens- can't come back here unless she deals with a realllyyyy long prison sentance, gave birth to the baby,and then went on to have two more - all of them with mental health issues. His sister will end up with those three as well - he, his mom and I send out positive vibes into the universe that his sister stays healthy. The stories in the paper abound about abused bio children and adopted children comming into the world and having tragic ends to their little lives - I would probably councel her to terminate (no hate mail please) and later on down the road when she is stable, revist the having a baby issue. She already has a beautiful little boy living elsewhere due to her bad choices. And so many drug addicted women end up with less than desirable partners in life. What a mess these kids can make of their lives sometimes :( Am so sorry you have to have any kind of "what to do" talk Marcie [/QUOTE]
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