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Sweet Betsy-What to say or not say or do?
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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 431806" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>Others have given excellent advice. Being pro choice, I think that if you advise her to terminate the pregnancy she will try to use this against you for years to come. No matter why you end a pregnancy, it is painful for all but sociopaths and maybe narcissists. SB will use this pain to escape further into her substnaces of choice. It will be YOUR fault because you did not jump up and down for joy and promise to support her and the baby forever. So you MADE her do it. It isn't true, but truth doesn't really matter to an addict. Only drugs matter (lumping alcohol in with other drugs).</p><p></p><p>I think that whatever you tell her will be used against you later, just as a way to manipulate you. DDD has excellent advise - to NOT advise her. Send her to planned parenthood and the link that Star posted. And then do what you must do anyway - let her handle it, because reality is that you have no real choices here - the choices are hers.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 431806, member: 1233"] Others have given excellent advice. Being pro choice, I think that if you advise her to terminate the pregnancy she will try to use this against you for years to come. No matter why you end a pregnancy, it is painful for all but sociopaths and maybe narcissists. SB will use this pain to escape further into her substnaces of choice. It will be YOUR fault because you did not jump up and down for joy and promise to support her and the baby forever. So you MADE her do it. It isn't true, but truth doesn't really matter to an addict. Only drugs matter (lumping alcohol in with other drugs). I think that whatever you tell her will be used against you later, just as a way to manipulate you. DDD has excellent advise - to NOT advise her. Send her to planned parenthood and the link that Star posted. And then do what you must do anyway - let her handle it, because reality is that you have no real choices here - the choices are hers. [/QUOTE]
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