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Tail end of a long visit with grandparents; meltdown behavior
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 660589" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Ok. This is the grandparent's problem, not your daughters. You don't blame or resent innocent children because they have disorders and difficulties. It is abuse. This says more about the grandparents than the kids and since they are hardly a part of your children's lives, it shouldn't affect them.</p><p></p><p>An adults feelings never should take precedent over a young child. An adult can take care of himself/herself. A child is still in our care, still growing and learning. I hope you don't allow the grandparents to say negatives about them in front of them. That kind of stuff can stick with a child for life. Don't do it. Please. And tell them that you don't allow anyone to make negative comments about your girls in front of them or, if you don't want to hear it either, to yourself. You set the boundary. They need your protection and already have challenges that they are too young to be blamed for.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 660589, member: 1550"] Ok. This is the grandparent's problem, not your daughters. You don't blame or resent innocent children because they have disorders and difficulties. It is abuse. This says more about the grandparents than the kids and since they are hardly a part of your children's lives, it shouldn't affect them. An adults feelings never should take precedent over a young child. An adult can take care of himself/herself. A child is still in our care, still growing and learning. I hope you don't allow the grandparents to say negatives about them in front of them. That kind of stuff can stick with a child for life. Don't do it. Please. And tell them that you don't allow anyone to make negative comments about your girls in front of them or, if you don't want to hear it either, to yourself. You set the boundary. They need your protection and already have challenges that they are too young to be blamed for. [/QUOTE]
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