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<blockquote data-quote="Heather52" data-source="post: 695051" data-attributes="member: 20312"><p>Our problems with our daughter started to surface in her late teens. That's when she went away to university. She would come home each semester. After her second year she moved in with her boyfriend now husband. Her husband who took an immediate dislike to my husband, you add that dislike, with his extreme disrespect for most people and his poor upbringing , along with our daughters feelings towards her father. What do you think we were going to get? Not a harmonious. Family. Her resentment towards her father took on a life of its own. He never raised not once a hand to her, his crime was according to her. Was he was emotionally absent. My husband was never the buggy , missy feely guy but he loved his children deeply. He woukd at times reach out to give her a hug or a kiss on the check even has an adult. </p><p></p><p></p><p>She would push him away. She would push me away when I tried. .</p><p></p><p>So to Dad. The truth is in the middle? She tolerated him only because she didn't live with us. They only tolerated us when they wanted us to stay overnight to baby sit, she tolerated him when she wanted him to help twice with Lanscaping projects. She tolerated him when they asked to move in three times for a minimum of 8 Weeks up to 9 months while his divorced father lived in a three bedroom house 10 minutes away and all by himself. I guess her tolerance boiled over when she knew she didn't need him anymore . Her tolerance boiled over when he finally said something stupid , which I started and his father joined in. The comment was meant to be funny. We all laughed while my daughter visibly shook with anger. It boiled over when our son in law accused him of throwing sand in our grandchilds face on the beach in front of our daughter and me. In front of all the people on the beach. OMG. Their tolerance for him ended. </p><p></p><p>My husband is not a perfect man, he could be argumentative, opinionated, a fuse that would blow. Once a year , he is socially awkward , judgemental at times and could judge others harshly some times but not often. On the other side he is honest to the core, he cannot lie, sensitive, loyal to a fault , kind sensitive and a man who loves his family . He is a man who is lost without his family. </p><p></p><p>The truth is in the middle?</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Heather52, post: 695051, member: 20312"] Our problems with our daughter started to surface in her late teens. That's when she went away to university. She would come home each semester. After her second year she moved in with her boyfriend now husband. Her husband who took an immediate dislike to my husband, you add that dislike, with his extreme disrespect for most people and his poor upbringing , along with our daughters feelings towards her father. What do you think we were going to get? Not a harmonious. Family. Her resentment towards her father took on a life of its own. He never raised not once a hand to her, his crime was according to her. Was he was emotionally absent. My husband was never the buggy , missy feely guy but he loved his children deeply. He woukd at times reach out to give her a hug or a kiss on the check even has an adult. She would push him away. She would push me away when I tried. . So to Dad. The truth is in the middle? She tolerated him only because she didn't live with us. They only tolerated us when they wanted us to stay overnight to baby sit, she tolerated him when she wanted him to help twice with Lanscaping projects. She tolerated him when they asked to move in three times for a minimum of 8 Weeks up to 9 months while his divorced father lived in a three bedroom house 10 minutes away and all by himself. I guess her tolerance boiled over when she knew she didn't need him anymore . Her tolerance boiled over when he finally said something stupid , which I started and his father joined in. The comment was meant to be funny. We all laughed while my daughter visibly shook with anger. It boiled over when our son in law accused him of throwing sand in our grandchilds face on the beach in front of our daughter and me. In front of all the people on the beach. OMG. Their tolerance for him ended. My husband is not a perfect man, he could be argumentative, opinionated, a fuse that would blow. Once a year , he is socially awkward , judgemental at times and could judge others harshly some times but not often. On the other side he is honest to the core, he cannot lie, sensitive, loyal to a fault , kind sensitive and a man who loves his family . He is a man who is lost without his family. The truth is in the middle? [/QUOTE]
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