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<blockquote data-quote="Heather52" data-source="post: 695070" data-attributes="member: 20312"><p>To A Dad. Thank you for saying that she cares. Yes do she does , I know that. I know she tolerated him Fo my sake fir the best part. I never said there weren't good times in between. There were many. But last year not even for me would she tolerate him again for throwing sand according to her husband and the so called rude remark that he had made. Then came her tirades. He had to go to therapy for 6 months and during that six months we were to have no contact. Next came a letter asking me to chose between her father or her and her son. Then came the using of my grandson to punish me when I inadvertently said the wrong things.things she didn't want to hear , the back goes up and then we are punished. I can go on and on . I know I didn't handle things well. I tried to fix it. Fix her , we tried three times to discuss in person to work things out but all we got were roadblocks. Maybe we tried too soon after our fright, there were so many maybes , so many buts. This was all new to me. I didn't know how to handle it. I should have taken my husbands lead. He refused to engage. He knew if he did , it would be adding fuel to the fire and that's what I did .</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Heather52, post: 695070, member: 20312"] To A Dad. Thank you for saying that she cares. Yes do she does , I know that. I know she tolerated him Fo my sake fir the best part. I never said there weren't good times in between. There were many. But last year not even for me would she tolerate him again for throwing sand according to her husband and the so called rude remark that he had made. Then came her tirades. He had to go to therapy for 6 months and during that six months we were to have no contact. Next came a letter asking me to chose between her father or her and her son. Then came the using of my grandson to punish me when I inadvertently said the wrong things.things she didn't want to hear , the back goes up and then we are punished. I can go on and on . I know I didn't handle things well. I tried to fix it. Fix her , we tried three times to discuss in person to work things out but all we got were roadblocks. Maybe we tried too soon after our fright, there were so many maybes , so many buts. This was all new to me. I didn't know how to handle it. I should have taken my husbands lead. He refused to engage. He knew if he did , it would be adding fuel to the fire and that's what I did . [/QUOTE]
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