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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 695113" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Why does your daughter and her husband, who sounds like s big jerk, get to dictate who you talk to? Would she listen if you told her you think she is hurting your grandson by not letting him see his other grandmother, whom he loves? Is she the only one who can have an opinion? Do you have to walk on eggshells with this pair like they own you? I'm mad at them, not you. Does this relationship really make you happy? Being their puppet? Being a child who has to do their bidding?</p><p></p><p>I understand why the other grandmother would rather stay away than apologize. It is unlikely that she will ever be treated like the respectable person that she is anyway. And guard your heart. They are capable of shunning close relatives, with no caring of how it hurts there own child. Since this is their history...they could do it again.</p><p>Their child is not as important to them as punishing Grandma. Poor little boy.</p><p></p><p>I am so sorry she is your only child. it does help to have more than one, if one is this way. I so feel for you, husband and little boy. Nobody is looking out for his little heart. They wont let the grandmas do it and they sure don't.</p><p></p><p>Whatever grandma in law did, nasty or not, after the cruelty of being cut off, I cant blame her for it. A cut off from your child and his child is meaner than anything grandmother could have done. I really, really have no respect for this son in law of yours.</p><p></p><p>I hope things improve. I dont think they will, but because of how THEY are, not you and husband or other grandma. I have four grown kids. This is not normal mother/daughter interaction. So sorry.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 695113, member: 1550"] Why does your daughter and her husband, who sounds like s big jerk, get to dictate who you talk to? Would she listen if you told her you think she is hurting your grandson by not letting him see his other grandmother, whom he loves? Is she the only one who can have an opinion? Do you have to walk on eggshells with this pair like they own you? I'm mad at them, not you. Does this relationship really make you happy? Being their puppet? Being a child who has to do their bidding? I understand why the other grandmother would rather stay away than apologize. It is unlikely that she will ever be treated like the respectable person that she is anyway. And guard your heart. They are capable of shunning close relatives, with no caring of how it hurts there own child. Since this is their history...they could do it again. Their child is not as important to them as punishing Grandma. Poor little boy. I am so sorry she is your only child. it does help to have more than one, if one is this way. I so feel for you, husband and little boy. Nobody is looking out for his little heart. They wont let the grandmas do it and they sure don't. Whatever grandma in law did, nasty or not, after the cruelty of being cut off, I cant blame her for it. A cut off from your child and his child is meaner than anything grandmother could have done. I really, really have no respect for this son in law of yours. I hope things improve. I dont think they will, but because of how THEY are, not you and husband or other grandma. I have four grown kids. This is not normal mother/daughter interaction. So sorry. [/QUOTE]
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