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<blockquote data-quote="Heather52" data-source="post: 695138" data-attributes="member: 20312"><p>with the help from my councillor we drew up a letter to reach out to my daughter to try and reconcile. In this email i spoke about the only way we can move forward is to take all our misjustices, all our disappointments, all disrespect , put hem all aside to be forgotten. To never discuss old hurts again and to avoid all hot topics. </p><p></p><p>Within 2 minutes I get this scathing text from My daughter saying Her husband wants to know why I was talking to his mother last week? He sat on thus information for a whole week and decides to mention it when he sees the email. My guess was to sabotage our attempts to reconcile. My daughter doesn't or refuse to see it that way. I didn't mention to my daughter that I was talking to her hated mother in law , I seen no need because after our conversation I blocked the woman and removed her from my contacts. I set out to help her reconcile with her son and my daughter but that's the extent of my reaching out to her. She lives 2 hours drive from me, we gave nothing in common but my daughter through her hatred sees it only I'm trying to be friends with this woman. I kept telling my daughter if that were the case , why did I block her. My daughter refuses to hear me. My daughter and her husband is questioning my motives with regards to the timing of my talking to his mother and a few days later reaching out to reconcile. How they came up with anything sinister there is beyond me. </p><p></p><p>My daughter was clearly upset , I ended the conversation before it escalated. But within minutes another call of interrogation. I asked her did she not read my email and not understand its contents. She did but her hatred and her venom won out.</p><p></p><p>I told her I withdraw my letter to reconcile . I'm not dealing with this yet again. But what's mind boggling , she blames the mother in law for our failed attempt . I corrected her its not the mother in law but it was her hatred that spilled over onto our conversations that ruined it. I doubt she sees it that way or ever will. </p><p></p><p>Why do I keep doing this to myself? Salome as she holds all thus rage and hatred , reconciliation will never work between us. I can understand it woukd ve hard and impossible for her or accept. Y befriending a woman who she bitterly hates. But the woman is not my friend, nor will she ever be. But my daughter and her husband doesn't believe me . And she threw all chances for a family reconciliation away and for what?</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Heather52, post: 695138, member: 20312"] with the help from my councillor we drew up a letter to reach out to my daughter to try and reconcile. In this email i spoke about the only way we can move forward is to take all our misjustices, all our disappointments, all disrespect , put hem all aside to be forgotten. To never discuss old hurts again and to avoid all hot topics. Within 2 minutes I get this scathing text from My daughter saying Her husband wants to know why I was talking to his mother last week? He sat on thus information for a whole week and decides to mention it when he sees the email. My guess was to sabotage our attempts to reconcile. My daughter doesn't or refuse to see it that way. I didn't mention to my daughter that I was talking to her hated mother in law , I seen no need because after our conversation I blocked the woman and removed her from my contacts. I set out to help her reconcile with her son and my daughter but that's the extent of my reaching out to her. She lives 2 hours drive from me, we gave nothing in common but my daughter through her hatred sees it only I'm trying to be friends with this woman. I kept telling my daughter if that were the case , why did I block her. My daughter refuses to hear me. My daughter and her husband is questioning my motives with regards to the timing of my talking to his mother and a few days later reaching out to reconcile. How they came up with anything sinister there is beyond me. My daughter was clearly upset , I ended the conversation before it escalated. But within minutes another call of interrogation. I asked her did she not read my email and not understand its contents. She did but her hatred and her venom won out. I told her I withdraw my letter to reconcile . I'm not dealing with this yet again. But what's mind boggling , she blames the mother in law for our failed attempt . I corrected her its not the mother in law but it was her hatred that spilled over onto our conversations that ruined it. I doubt she sees it that way or ever will. Why do I keep doing this to myself? Salome as she holds all thus rage and hatred , reconciliation will never work between us. I can understand it woukd ve hard and impossible for her or accept. Y befriending a woman who she bitterly hates. But the woman is not my friend, nor will she ever be. But my daughter and her husband doesn't believe me . And she threw all chances for a family reconciliation away and for what? [/QUOTE]
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