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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 695145" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>PS Your husband sounds like a wonderful man. I can understand one hundred percent why you both protect and defend him. He sounds like a man who can take care of himself, however. Unlike the son in law who sounds like is not wrapped too tight.</p><p></p><p>I agree with SWOT on this: That your daughter is influenced by her husband's weakness and toxicity. It seems that he brought out the worst in her. Which is not what we want for our kids! But this happens.</p><p></p><p>I have a friend whose son married a female counterpart of your son in law. She was a cold fish, high strung, self-centered investment banker. Her son became a house husband and never worked again! For the longest time the couple rejected his mother and she was heartbroken. And now? It completely turned around. This son and his wife are lovey dovey with the mother, my friend.</p><p></p><p>It is her other son who is difficult. One son is 50 plus, the other is late 40's. The mother about 72 or 73. When does this end?</p><p></p><p>The only person you have control of is yourself. You reached out. She could not do it. That is what I would hold onto. Meanwhile you have us!! As Scarlett said, "Tomorrow is another day."</p><p></p><p>I agree with A Dad. I believe your daughter very much wants a relationship with you and loves you and her father. People do change. That is why there is a CD. It is not just to commiserate. It is to change and help our kids change.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 695145, member: 18958"] PS Your husband sounds like a wonderful man. I can understand one hundred percent why you both protect and defend him. He sounds like a man who can take care of himself, however. Unlike the son in law who sounds like is not wrapped too tight. I agree with SWOT on this: That your daughter is influenced by her husband's weakness and toxicity. It seems that he brought out the worst in her. Which is not what we want for our kids! But this happens. I have a friend whose son married a female counterpart of your son in law. She was a cold fish, high strung, self-centered investment banker. Her son became a house husband and never worked again! For the longest time the couple rejected his mother and she was heartbroken. And now? It completely turned around. This son and his wife are lovey dovey with the mother, my friend. It is her other son who is difficult. One son is 50 plus, the other is late 40's. The mother about 72 or 73. When does this end? The only person you have control of is yourself. You reached out. She could not do it. That is what I would hold onto. Meanwhile you have us!! As Scarlett said, "Tomorrow is another day." I agree with A Dad. I believe your daughter very much wants a relationship with you and loves you and her father. People do change. That is why there is a CD. It is not just to commiserate. It is to change and help our kids change. [/QUOTE]
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