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<blockquote data-quote="truebluetara" data-source="post: 598568"><p>Thanks so much for your responses... Its been so hard getting the help i need for my son..tried therapists...child development center every source ive turned to has tried flipping his behaviour on me like im the problem...ive had social workers investigate me more times than i can count...obviously they turned up nothing but it was very traumitizing and embarressing now my son threatens me chronically with social services if he doesnt get his own way..making my job even tougher... I have read the exposive child but i really prefer the got an angry child book its full of usefull tools on reprogramming yourself as a parent ... Over the years i have learned what sets him off and how to word things differently...which is so easy on a good day but when your tired and worn out it becomes harder not to get iimpatient and show fustration...what really sucks is he is highly intelligent child and can have me running around in circles during an argument...over the years i have learned not to get into them with him because he can break me down and confuse the situation...what makes it harder is he is extroidinarily physically mature for his age he is only 13 but has the build of a 17/18 yearold boy complete with the facial hair ....people expect more from him and it increases his anxiety... Not to mention makes his meltdowns harder to manage when he rages the destruction can get pretty expensive...which sucks! I hace to say though he amazes me so often his generosity and loving heart blows me away..he is beautiful... I just hope i can help him manage his issues and become the best version of him he can be...</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="truebluetara, post: 598568"] Thanks so much for your responses... Its been so hard getting the help i need for my son..tried therapists...child development center every source ive turned to has tried flipping his behaviour on me like im the problem...ive had social workers investigate me more times than i can count...obviously they turned up nothing but it was very traumitizing and embarressing now my son threatens me chronically with social services if he doesnt get his own way..making my job even tougher... I have read the exposive child but i really prefer the got an angry child book its full of usefull tools on reprogramming yourself as a parent ... Over the years i have learned what sets him off and how to word things differently...which is so easy on a good day but when your tired and worn out it becomes harder not to get iimpatient and show fustration...what really sucks is he is highly intelligent child and can have me running around in circles during an argument...over the years i have learned not to get into them with him because he can break me down and confuse the situation...what makes it harder is he is extroidinarily physically mature for his age he is only 13 but has the build of a 17/18 yearold boy complete with the facial hair ....people expect more from him and it increases his anxiety... Not to mention makes his meltdowns harder to manage when he rages the destruction can get pretty expensive...which sucks! I hace to say though he amazes me so often his generosity and loving heart blows me away..he is beautiful... I just hope i can help him manage his issues and become the best version of him he can be... [/QUOTE]
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