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<blockquote data-quote="toughlovin" data-source="post: 738561" data-attributes="member: 15801"><p>Ah Leafy.... these calls and saying no is so hard even when it is absolutely the right thing. It is much easier for defense attorneys if they have families willing to take in their clients, give them a place to stay etc etc. They are not thinking about the rest of the family they just want to finish this case...,. Especially public defenders because they arent making any money. But you have to think about what is right for you and the rest of your family. It would be terrible for your son who is senior in high school, your daughter who is living with you and your precious granddaughter and of course it would be terrible for you. So dont feel guilty for thinking of yourself and the others in your family. This is your daughters mess. I know when my daughter was still in high school saying no to the courts about my son coming home was more clear cut..... after she went to college it became less so because now it was just us I had to think about. He did end up coming home for a year and I think that was the last time because it is not good for us at all. Hang in there and stay strong!! And yeah feeling sad is normal, none of us want this for our kids.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="toughlovin, post: 738561, member: 15801"] Ah Leafy.... these calls and saying no is so hard even when it is absolutely the right thing. It is much easier for defense attorneys if they have families willing to take in their clients, give them a place to stay etc etc. They are not thinking about the rest of the family they just want to finish this case...,. Especially public defenders because they arent making any money. But you have to think about what is right for you and the rest of your family. It would be terrible for your son who is senior in high school, your daughter who is living with you and your precious granddaughter and of course it would be terrible for you. So dont feel guilty for thinking of yourself and the others in your family. This is your daughters mess. I know when my daughter was still in high school saying no to the courts about my son coming home was more clear cut..... after she went to college it became less so because now it was just us I had to think about. He did end up coming home for a year and I think that was the last time because it is not good for us at all. Hang in there and stay strong!! And yeah feeling sad is normal, none of us want this for our kids. [/QUOTE]
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