HH, it sounds as though you are a really strong person. You are miles ahead of me when I first joined this board! I was still thinking that I could sort all his problems and turn him into the person I thought he should be. I thought if I kept giving him money and advice that everything would get 'fixed'. You already know that this is probably not the best thing to do. I'm glad your son wants to "fix it on his own". This makes me optimistic for you.
You could start your own thread maybe, when you feel it's the right time.
