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The double and sometimes triple lives of my difficult child
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<blockquote data-quote="dashcat" data-source="post: 447051" data-attributes="member: 9175"><p>I've reached the same armchair psychiatrist conclusion, MrSam. </p><p></p><p>And I guess I needed to prove what I already knew (because I've suspected this for a long time) by looking. </p><p></p><p>Star, the decision about my relationship with her is already made. I've decided to quit looking at anything I could not see publicly: I will look at her FB page but not log in and read her messages or her emails. </p><p></p><p>Checking up to a certain point was good. It' helps deflect (if only to me) my X's assertations that I always think the worst and that my expectations of her are unreasonable. Checking beyond a certain poiint does not help her and it hurts me.</p><p></p><p>I'm not saying this is easy. The temptation is there. Thankfully I have a counseling appointment TODAY! (how convenient)</p><p></p><p>Dash, still a worried mom...</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="dashcat, post: 447051, member: 9175"] I've reached the same armchair psychiatrist conclusion, MrSam. And I guess I needed to prove what I already knew (because I've suspected this for a long time) by looking. Star, the decision about my relationship with her is already made. I've decided to quit looking at anything I could not see publicly: I will look at her FB page but not log in and read her messages or her emails. Checking up to a certain point was good. It' helps deflect (if only to me) my X's assertations that I always think the worst and that my expectations of her are unreasonable. Checking beyond a certain poiint does not help her and it hurts me. I'm not saying this is easy. The temptation is there. Thankfully I have a counseling appointment TODAY! (how convenient) Dash, still a worried mom... [/QUOTE]
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