You know, there are many battles I'm no longer willing to take on. When the tweedles were at their very worst all I cared about was medications & safe (non aggressive or self harming) behaviors.
To be honest the rest was a basket C.
kt is now as stable as it gets medication wise - now I'm taking on more issues. Most importantly boundaries & cleaning up after herself. We'll move onto the next item when these 2 are mastered.
The rest I still don't argue. We are slowly moving forward - nothing will be "cured" overnight for kt or wm.
Seriously, you can either take on each & every battle or make progress on the most important issues; then bring in the next challenge.
Take it from me - no matter how long you bang your head on that brick wall, it ain't going anywhere & you end up with a major headache. Day in, day out.