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"the explosive child"
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<blockquote data-quote="Allan-Matlem" data-source="post: 37617" data-attributes="member: 10"><p>Hi,</p><p></p><p>From the handout </p><p>· Basket C: (C=Child) is where the adult is eliminating or reducing the problem expectation. Only the childs concern is considered. Basket C does not cause meltdowns. Basket C helps adults eliminate unnecessary demands, thereby reducing a childs global level of frustration and enabling him or her to deal more successfully with the more critical remaining demands. You know that you are in Basket C if nothing comes out of your mouth, except maybe: Okay or Oh. Later you might say: I didnt bring it up.</p><p></p><p>The importance of basket C is also in helping to create a more relaxed environment and reduce the amount of negative interactions. In a relaxed atmosphere we can then communicate, have a dialog etc that is why one on one time is so important , the dynamic and dialog is win-win. Instead of talking about emotive issues , start chatting about general stuff, start bonding , connecting , ask questions , talk about yourself what made you happy , then let the kid talk about himself etc</p><p></p><p>Allan</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Allan-Matlem, post: 37617, member: 10"] Hi, From the handout · Basket C: (C=Child) is where the adult is eliminating or reducing the problem expectation. Only the childs concern is considered. Basket C does not cause meltdowns. Basket C helps adults eliminate unnecessary demands, thereby reducing a childs global level of frustration and enabling him or her to deal more successfully with the more critical remaining demands. You know that you are in Basket C if nothing comes out of your mouth, except maybe: Okay or Oh. Later you might say: I didnt bring it up. The importance of basket C is also in helping to create a more relaxed environment and reduce the amount of negative interactions. In a relaxed atmosphere we can then communicate, have a dialog etc that is why one on one time is so important , the dynamic and dialog is win-win. Instead of talking about emotive issues , start chatting about general stuff, start bonding , connecting , ask questions , talk about yourself what made you happy , then let the kid talk about himself etc Allan [/QUOTE]
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