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The hope I hung onto while my son was in treatment, has vanished....
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<blockquote data-quote="P126 Mum" data-source="post: 667111" data-attributes="member: 19526"><p>Oh ladies really appreciate your replies, thank you</p><p>Tanya M, hello there, yes I believe it is nature. My husband is the most oppositional brute you could come across and after 20 yrs wondering what to say and how to handle things I only found out about ODD this year whilst trying to search why my daughter hates me so much. Once I read the 'check list' I was staggered. I seen them both. I would love to be free (long story) as I know I am his number one to off load on. He could not speak and act at work or to casual acquaintces they way he does to me. So it is a selective process. My daughter the same. </p><p></p><p>However a thought did strike me. Do we now over analyse and pamper our children. Was this around 100 yrs ago when life was harder and everyone in the family had to help just to enable them to survive. There was not room for strops and moods. They just had to get on with it then,no therapists, group talks etc just get on with it. ??</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="P126 Mum, post: 667111, member: 19526"] Oh ladies really appreciate your replies, thank you Tanya M, hello there, yes I believe it is nature. My husband is the most oppositional brute you could come across and after 20 yrs wondering what to say and how to handle things I only found out about ODD this year whilst trying to search why my daughter hates me so much. Once I read the 'check list' I was staggered. I seen them both. I would love to be free (long story) as I know I am his number one to off load on. He could not speak and act at work or to casual acquaintces they way he does to me. So it is a selective process. My daughter the same. However a thought did strike me. Do we now over analyse and pamper our children. Was this around 100 yrs ago when life was harder and everyone in the family had to help just to enable them to survive. There was not room for strops and moods. They just had to get on with it then,no therapists, group talks etc just get on with it. ?? [/QUOTE]
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