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"The Kid's Game"--ODD strategy
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<blockquote data-quote="idohope" data-source="post: 321890" data-attributes="member: 7722"><p>We also did this (and continue to). It was introduced to us as PCIT (parent child interaction therapy). We were given some specific rules about the type of activity and we told to let the child lead, and to provide positive and reflective comments on what they were doing. "You put the red block on the blue block I like that choice" Our difficult child was a little older when we first tried it. The first day we tried she said "Did that stupid lady tell you this, did you get it off the internet or read it in some dumb parenting book" (Stupid lady=therapist). A couple of days later she was asking us to do it with her. She soon started complimenting me during the play time.</p><p></p><p>We had a 3 month period with difficult child last year that was rough. Major tantrums every single day. The PCIT was not an immediate fix, but I think the positive interaction, particularly during this rough time was very important for all of us and helped break the cycle of having every day just be about the tantrum behavior. difficult child is doing much better now, with weekly instead of daily tantrums.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="idohope, post: 321890, member: 7722"] We also did this (and continue to). It was introduced to us as PCIT (parent child interaction therapy). We were given some specific rules about the type of activity and we told to let the child lead, and to provide positive and reflective comments on what they were doing. "You put the red block on the blue block I like that choice" Our difficult child was a little older when we first tried it. The first day we tried she said "Did that stupid lady tell you this, did you get it off the internet or read it in some dumb parenting book" (Stupid lady=therapist). A couple of days later she was asking us to do it with her. She soon started complimenting me during the play time. We had a 3 month period with difficult child last year that was rough. Major tantrums every single day. The PCIT was not an immediate fix, but I think the positive interaction, particularly during this rough time was very important for all of us and helped break the cycle of having every day just be about the tantrum behavior. difficult child is doing much better now, with weekly instead of daily tantrums. [/QUOTE]
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