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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember1" data-source="post: 761131" data-attributes="member: 23706"><p>Hi there and I feel so bad but I understand 100%. Our daughter finally was no longer getting help from us for her horrible choices AND her abuse toward the rest of us. We hung in there a little longer because of her son. In your circumstances, depending on age and ability I may have called CPS to try to get custody of the baby, but I am too old to raise a child to maturity. Finally our other daughter got custody. If Kay would have run off with Jaden we would have called CPS hoping he could get a safe home and not be on the street.</p><p></p><p>But Kay? No. No more craziness, abuse, drugs, insanity. It's on her now. She is not stupid. She had already found a way to get massive government aid including SSDI (I had no clue she was disabled), Medicare, Medicaid and Food Share. She can remain living in her old motorhome or apply for low income housing.</p><p></p><p>She can also get a job but she won't work. Her husband Lee works part time at some pizza place.</p><p></p><p>The only money I will ever send her again, and she knows this, is if she gets her tubes tied. My one fear left is she will get pregnant again and she is the worst mother ever.</p><p></p><p>People may think I am mean but I learned not to let others judge me. Walk in my shoes first. God will judge.</p><p></p><p>God makes me strong and watches over my daughter. He has far more power than me to keep an eye out for her. I'm all worn out. I'm done. You can be too. It's okay. We didn't cause their problems, we can't control the problems and we can't cure our kids. In Nar Anon we call these the three Cs...cause, control, cure. We need to remember mostly that we loved them and did not cause it!!</p><p>.</p><p></p><p>Love and hugs.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember1, post: 761131, member: 23706"] Hi there and I feel so bad but I understand 100%. Our daughter finally was no longer getting help from us for her horrible choices AND her abuse toward the rest of us. We hung in there a little longer because of her son. In your circumstances, depending on age and ability I may have called CPS to try to get custody of the baby, but I am too old to raise a child to maturity. Finally our other daughter got custody. If Kay would have run off with Jaden we would have called CPS hoping he could get a safe home and not be on the street. But Kay? No. No more craziness, abuse, drugs, insanity. It's on her now. She is not stupid. She had already found a way to get massive government aid including SSDI (I had no clue she was disabled), Medicare, Medicaid and Food Share. She can remain living in her old motorhome or apply for low income housing. She can also get a job but she won't work. Her husband Lee works part time at some pizza place. The only money I will ever send her again, and she knows this, is if she gets her tubes tied. My one fear left is she will get pregnant again and she is the worst mother ever. People may think I am mean but I learned not to let others judge me. Walk in my shoes first. God will judge. God makes me strong and watches over my daughter. He has far more power than me to keep an eye out for her. I'm all worn out. I'm done. You can be too. It's okay. We didn't cause their problems, we can't control the problems and we can't cure our kids. In Nar Anon we call these the three Cs...cause, control, cure. We need to remember mostly that we loved them and did not cause it!! . Love and hugs. [/QUOTE]
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