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<blockquote data-quote="toughlovin" data-source="post: 504886"><p>Thank you gals for all being straight, up front and honest with me. I needed that even though it is not what i wanted to hear. LOL. So I called the manager at the sober house... and yes they feel he definitely used. The spice test definitely came back positive. My difficult child is really kind of dumb because if he kept in touch with me last night I would have been more likely to keep believing him. LOL.... but his non answering me made me feel he was really being squirelly. I checked the phone records and there are lots of phone calls with the girlfriend up here... so I would not be surprised if he is trying to find a sober house up here... not happening.</p><p></p><p>So the sober house is trying to come up with a plan for him... I think to guide him and maybe he should go somewhere else because he is not getting it there. He told me I can call him and ask him about any of the other sober houses... but he said a lot of the kids migrate to ones that will not hold him accountable... and many of them I am sure do not do the level of drug testing or test for spice. So I suspect that is his plan to go to a less strict sober house so he can get away with more and continue to have a place to live and have us support him.</p><p></p><p>So i just called him, no answer. So I left him a message that I have been thinking about it and dad and I have talked and that we believe he did use... that he has lied to us so much before. That we will help him go to treatment but we are not going to help him go to a place that is less restrictive and wont hold him accountable.</p><p></p><p>So he will need to find the treatment place and do the calls and i will check out any place he decides to go with the manager of the sober house.</p><p></p><p>And he may somehow con the girlfriend into getting him a ticket back here. I am really tempted to call her too... but I tried that before and it backfired on me big time and she herself is a piece of work given that she is still with him in some way.</p><p></p><p>So getting tougher again... probably until he calls me......</p><p></p><p>Thank you all for your honesty.... I really needed that.</p><p></p><p>TL</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="toughlovin, post: 504886"] Thank you gals for all being straight, up front and honest with me. I needed that even though it is not what i wanted to hear. LOL. So I called the manager at the sober house... and yes they feel he definitely used. The spice test definitely came back positive. My difficult child is really kind of dumb because if he kept in touch with me last night I would have been more likely to keep believing him. LOL.... but his non answering me made me feel he was really being squirelly. I checked the phone records and there are lots of phone calls with the girlfriend up here... so I would not be surprised if he is trying to find a sober house up here... not happening. So the sober house is trying to come up with a plan for him... I think to guide him and maybe he should go somewhere else because he is not getting it there. He told me I can call him and ask him about any of the other sober houses... but he said a lot of the kids migrate to ones that will not hold him accountable... and many of them I am sure do not do the level of drug testing or test for spice. So I suspect that is his plan to go to a less strict sober house so he can get away with more and continue to have a place to live and have us support him. So i just called him, no answer. So I left him a message that I have been thinking about it and dad and I have talked and that we believe he did use... that he has lied to us so much before. That we will help him go to treatment but we are not going to help him go to a place that is less restrictive and wont hold him accountable. So he will need to find the treatment place and do the calls and i will check out any place he decides to go with the manager of the sober house. And he may somehow con the girlfriend into getting him a ticket back here. I am really tempted to call her too... but I tried that before and it backfired on me big time and she herself is a piece of work given that she is still with him in some way. So getting tougher again... probably until he calls me...... Thank you all for your honesty.... I really needed that. TL [/QUOTE]
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