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<blockquote data-quote="Tiredof33" data-source="post: 517057" data-attributes="member: 13558"><p>I feel your pain! My niece married a dead beat and has 2 special needs children, one so severe she can not attend school and has had many surgeries.</p><p>Our entire family was trying to help support them, like we all say, for the children. He walks out on her and what does she do?? He comes back for a visit and she gets pregnant again with number 4!!! Enough is enough!! She got pregnant to keep the deadbeat and it worked until the baby was about 4 months old. She is on welfare and he doesn't work most of the time. I'm not supporting his kids while he sits on his a** at home. He is extremely lazy and comes back when he is between jobs and for some reason none of us can understand, she lets him stay there!! Niece says she can't get rid of him "YES YOU CAN YOU ARE DIVORCED!!!</p><p></p><p>Same thing with a step daughter that I have only met 1 time. We have been married 12 years and his kids live in another state. 5 kids with 4 different men! When I first met my husband we were both working and he was trying to help all 3 of his adult girls, they all had a bunch of kids. When he retired before me they thought I would continue to send money. NOPE!!!</p><p></p><p>After counseling my husband has finally learned that, they didn't ask his permission to have the kids, and he is not responsible for them. Some cases we were not even notified of the birth AND HE STILL SENT MONEY!!!! The oldest grand was pregnant (not married) and we received a shower invited, I embroidered 4 burp cloths and mailed them ( another state) and we did not receive a thank you, no birth announcement, nothing!!! I told him I won't do that again!</p><p>His adult girls never called sent birthday, Father's Day, or Christmas cards! </p><p></p><p>I agree it is hard, much easier to say than do! BUT she has to live her life. I have a 33 yo difficult child that drives me nuts, it appears he will never grow up, BUT I have stepped back. You have a life and deserve to have a good one. There are many good books posted on this forum and here is one that although a little different, the author does have a grand with not much contact.</p><p><a href="http://www.support4change.com/index.php?option=com_content&view=article&id=131&Itemid=177" target="_blank">http://www.support4change.com/index.php?option=com_content&view=article&id=131&Itemid=177</a></p><p>(((hugs and blessings for us all)))</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Tiredof33, post: 517057, member: 13558"] I feel your pain! My niece married a dead beat and has 2 special needs children, one so severe she can not attend school and has had many surgeries. Our entire family was trying to help support them, like we all say, for the children. He walks out on her and what does she do?? He comes back for a visit and she gets pregnant again with number 4!!! Enough is enough!! She got pregnant to keep the deadbeat and it worked until the baby was about 4 months old. She is on welfare and he doesn't work most of the time. I'm not supporting his kids while he sits on his a** at home. He is extremely lazy and comes back when he is between jobs and for some reason none of us can understand, she lets him stay there!! Niece says she can't get rid of him "YES YOU CAN YOU ARE DIVORCED!!! Same thing with a step daughter that I have only met 1 time. We have been married 12 years and his kids live in another state. 5 kids with 4 different men! When I first met my husband we were both working and he was trying to help all 3 of his adult girls, they all had a bunch of kids. When he retired before me they thought I would continue to send money. NOPE!!! After counseling my husband has finally learned that, they didn't ask his permission to have the kids, and he is not responsible for them. Some cases we were not even notified of the birth AND HE STILL SENT MONEY!!!! The oldest grand was pregnant (not married) and we received a shower invited, I embroidered 4 burp cloths and mailed them ( another state) and we did not receive a thank you, no birth announcement, nothing!!! I told him I won't do that again! His adult girls never called sent birthday, Father's Day, or Christmas cards! I agree it is hard, much easier to say than do! BUT she has to live her life. I have a 33 yo difficult child that drives me nuts, it appears he will never grow up, BUT I have stepped back. You have a life and deserve to have a good one. There are many good books posted on this forum and here is one that although a little different, the author does have a grand with not much contact. [URL]http://www.support4change.com/index.php?option=com_content&view=article&id=131&Itemid=177[/URL] (((hugs and blessings for us all))) [/QUOTE]
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