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<blockquote data-quote="Elsi" data-source="post: 739112" data-attributes="member: 23349"><p>Leaf, I am so sorry you are going through this. Please don’t beat yourself up. It’s so hard not to pick up the phone thinking ‘maybe...just maybe...this time will be different.’ </p><p></p><p>I’m all too familiar with that entitlement. They say we owe them ‘unconditional love’ but what they mean is we must do whatever they want, on their schedule. But that’s not love. Love is not slavery. They already KNOW we love them, and they are using that love as a weapon. Do this for me. Give me this. Send me this. Everyone else here has people who (put money on their books/bring them new socks and underwear/pay for phone calls/call their lawyer) what’s wrong with you that you won’t? Don’t you love me enough? </p><p></p><p>Forgive yourself for being human. You picked up because you love and hope. It hurts because you love.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Elsi, post: 739112, member: 23349"] Leaf, I am so sorry you are going through this. Please don’t beat yourself up. It’s so hard not to pick up the phone thinking ‘maybe...just maybe...this time will be different.’ I’m all too familiar with that entitlement. They say we owe them ‘unconditional love’ but what they mean is we must do whatever they want, on their schedule. But that’s not love. Love is not slavery. They already KNOW we love them, and they are using that love as a weapon. Do this for me. Give me this. Send me this. Everyone else here has people who (put money on their books/bring them new socks and underwear/pay for phone calls/call their lawyer) what’s wrong with you that you won’t? Don’t you love me enough? Forgive yourself for being human. You picked up because you love and hope. It hurts because you love. [/QUOTE]
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