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<blockquote data-quote="Jena" data-source="post: 222073" data-attributes="member: 4514"><p>hi</p><p> </p><p>i go through this alot with my ex. i have sole custody though so now i'm trying to finally let him not push my buttons so very badly. i'm trying.</p><p> </p><p>id just that maybe you could take sometime to explain the medication, what it does how it works and how difficult child's affect (appearance to us) isn't the answer, it's how difficult child is feeling inside. the medication is only to help him cope with life better. maybe give him some literature also.</p><p> </p><p>it's a knee jerk reaction of any parent. bottom line is we make the hard choices and the parents with whom only do "play time" ride us just like the schools, docs and everyone else. sorry negative yet realistic.</p><p> </p><p>just stay strong, and know that you are doing the right thing for difficult child. if he starts to basH the medication to your difficult child is when i'd say sorry i'm getting him back. yet as long as he administers it and vents only to you than i'd say give him time if possible to adjust to this. if you think of it we already went thru the mental process of should i medication or not?? yet for alot of father's who aren't as involved with dr.s etc. their just hit with the news and sometimes need time to adjust</p><p> </p><p>((((hugs))))</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Jena, post: 222073, member: 4514"] hi i go through this alot with my ex. i have sole custody though so now i'm trying to finally let him not push my buttons so very badly. i'm trying. id just that maybe you could take sometime to explain the medication, what it does how it works and how difficult child's affect (appearance to us) isn't the answer, it's how difficult child is feeling inside. the medication is only to help him cope with life better. maybe give him some literature also. it's a knee jerk reaction of any parent. bottom line is we make the hard choices and the parents with whom only do "play time" ride us just like the schools, docs and everyone else. sorry negative yet realistic. just stay strong, and know that you are doing the right thing for difficult child. if he starts to basH the medication to your difficult child is when i'd say sorry i'm getting him back. yet as long as he administers it and vents only to you than i'd say give him time if possible to adjust to this. if you think of it we already went thru the mental process of should i medication or not?? yet for alot of father's who aren't as involved with dr.s etc. their just hit with the news and sometimes need time to adjust ((((hugs)))) [/QUOTE]
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