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<blockquote data-quote="WiseChoices" data-source="post: 753323" data-attributes="member: 24254"><p>Thank you, Copa, for all these thoughts. What I meant by being powerless over all of it was that my husband is chosing not to engage in conflict with her . There is nothing I can do about that .I suggested he have her show him the medication bottles that HE PAID FOR and he won't do it. And I am powerless over her contacting and setting up appointments with this therapist.</p><p></p><p>I will have to be the bad guy and ask to see all 4 medication bottles that my husband paid for when I get home. I am getting used to being the bad guy. I would be that no matter what I did, so it doesn't matter to me anymore.</p><p></p><p>I think refusing to give her rides to therapist will create conflict for sure .I like the idea of being busy and not being home much. But I can't see how I would say no to ride without explanation. It doesn't go with what I worked out yesterday to stay neutral and indifferent to the whole thing . I am thinking of getting a full time job and thus being unavailable most of the time .</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="WiseChoices, post: 753323, member: 24254"] Thank you, Copa, for all these thoughts. What I meant by being powerless over all of it was that my husband is chosing not to engage in conflict with her . There is nothing I can do about that .I suggested he have her show him the medication bottles that HE PAID FOR and he won't do it. And I am powerless over her contacting and setting up appointments with this therapist. I will have to be the bad guy and ask to see all 4 medication bottles that my husband paid for when I get home. I am getting used to being the bad guy. I would be that no matter what I did, so it doesn't matter to me anymore. I think refusing to give her rides to therapist will create conflict for sure .I like the idea of being busy and not being home much. But I can't see how I would say no to ride without explanation. It doesn't go with what I worked out yesterday to stay neutral and indifferent to the whole thing . I am thinking of getting a full time job and thus being unavailable most of the time . [/QUOTE]
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