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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 753332" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>Really, I understand this, first hand. I had an advantage in that I had work where I had to have voice, an independent power base, personal authority, because I operated alone. There was nobody there to ask. And nobody I trusted to seek counsel. Everything had to come from me. But not from knowledge. I did not have any knowledge that served to guide me. So, I found a way to listen to my body, which I later figured out had something to do with G-d, and from that I could make sure, correct decisions, which I trusted 100 percent and would fight for them. I would have no doubt at all. This always served me. I was not opinionated. I was humble. i was flexible. I was open. I was true to myself and to the situation and others. This was not ego or power driven. But it was very powerful. </p><p></p><p>Yet. In my own life I was clueless, as to what I thought, what I needed, what I believed. It was only while cornered at work, where I had no choice but to depend upon my inner resources, that I could draw upon these resources. In my own life when I was not goal-driven I was flying blind.</p><p></p><p>Like you I feel a great deal of confusion. But I am coming to the sense that this is a necessary phase. In order to change in powerful ways we have to give up "knowing" anything. Because all of the knowing is based upon the past. So much of it does not serve. Not knowing works so much better, I think,.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 753332, member: 18958"] Really, I understand this, first hand. I had an advantage in that I had work where I had to have voice, an independent power base, personal authority, because I operated alone. There was nobody there to ask. And nobody I trusted to seek counsel. Everything had to come from me. But not from knowledge. I did not have any knowledge that served to guide me. So, I found a way to listen to my body, which I later figured out had something to do with G-d, and from that I could make sure, correct decisions, which I trusted 100 percent and would fight for them. I would have no doubt at all. This always served me. I was not opinionated. I was humble. i was flexible. I was open. I was true to myself and to the situation and others. This was not ego or power driven. But it was very powerful. Yet. In my own life I was clueless, as to what I thought, what I needed, what I believed. It was only while cornered at work, where I had no choice but to depend upon my inner resources, that I could draw upon these resources. In my own life when I was not goal-driven I was flying blind. Like you I feel a great deal of confusion. But I am coming to the sense that this is a necessary phase. In order to change in powerful ways we have to give up "knowing" anything. Because all of the knowing is based upon the past. So much of it does not serve. Not knowing works so much better, I think,. [/QUOTE]
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