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<blockquote data-quote="WiseChoices" data-source="post: 753357" data-attributes="member: 24254"><p>Wow, Copa. Thank you so much for your honesty and candidness. I really, really appreciate that. You have given me a lot to think about. The image of her waving at the crowds throwing garlands as I carry her on my back , toiling and working so hard for me to love her - that was powerful. </p><p></p><p>What is my need here? I can't work with a therapist who is unethical, and I have determined that this woman is. I have spiritual principles in my life .I need to follow them. They are my guideposts. After the huge bills I received from the therapist over the summer, I swore I would not deal with her again, and in fact wanted to request a letter that everything had been paid in full. That is what I need to serve: my own integrity. My husband does not want this therapist to make another dime off us and if daughter uses our insurance, we are on effect paying for it.</p><p></p><p>I need to say:" You know I have issues with this therapist. If you want to see her, you need to be aware that I will not deal with billing and that I won't be giving you rides there. " Because I really don't want to. </p><p></p><p>I also want what is best for daughter. She has dragged her feet finding a new therapist out of fear. She saw one (in my opinion) good one and this woman called daughter on her issues, said she had daddy issues and DC2 said she would never go back to her. My son sees this therapist and has been more willing to adult as a result. Returning to this old therapist is not serving daughter. She is regressing. </p><p></p><p>But her needs are secondary to mine. I am unable to compromise my integrity. </p><p></p><p>I got a Snapchat from DC2 this morning wishing me a good flight home. Saying she misses me and my hugs (???) and that my hugs are grounding to her and that she even misses my smell. Mhm......</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="WiseChoices, post: 753357, member: 24254"] Wow, Copa. Thank you so much for your honesty and candidness. I really, really appreciate that. You have given me a lot to think about. The image of her waving at the crowds throwing garlands as I carry her on my back , toiling and working so hard for me to love her - that was powerful. What is my need here? I can't work with a therapist who is unethical, and I have determined that this woman is. I have spiritual principles in my life .I need to follow them. They are my guideposts. After the huge bills I received from the therapist over the summer, I swore I would not deal with her again, and in fact wanted to request a letter that everything had been paid in full. That is what I need to serve: my own integrity. My husband does not want this therapist to make another dime off us and if daughter uses our insurance, we are on effect paying for it. I need to say:" You know I have issues with this therapist. If you want to see her, you need to be aware that I will not deal with billing and that I won't be giving you rides there. " Because I really don't want to. I also want what is best for daughter. She has dragged her feet finding a new therapist out of fear. She saw one (in my opinion) good one and this woman called daughter on her issues, said she had daddy issues and DC2 said she would never go back to her. My son sees this therapist and has been more willing to adult as a result. Returning to this old therapist is not serving daughter. She is regressing. But her needs are secondary to mine. I am unable to compromise my integrity. I got a Snapchat from DC2 this morning wishing me a good flight home. Saying she misses me and my hugs (???) and that my hugs are grounding to her and that she even misses my smell. Mhm...... [/QUOTE]
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