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<blockquote data-quote="WiseChoices" data-source="post: 753364" data-attributes="member: 24254"><p>I am in Europe at the moment. It is 11:30 am here. </p><p></p><p>I am so very sorry for your worry and fear about Kay. I understand you so well! I have been sick with fear and worry about loved ones on drugs. It is a dreadful experience. And you already have the solution: Al-Anon and its teachings .You can only take care of yourself and turn Kay over to God. And you know that . And it's hard. It is so much harder with our children than with anyone else. My heart is with you, dear Busy. I am praying for you and Kay. I pray for a miracle for your daughter. And that she be safe always. </p><p></p><p>You are right: it is easier to have a healthy relationship with a healthy person .</p><p></p><p>I have done some soul searching while navigating through the airport and, in tears, I have to admit that Copa is right: both of my adult children have been abusive to me. I have allowed that. And no matter what they said or did, I always continued to love and forgive, at times mistaking spirituality with self respect. </p><p></p><p>My son was at the therapist in question with me 2 years ago Christmas. And he laid into me verbally calling me a f...... addict (I have been in recovery longer than he has been on Earth), said I had never done anything he could be proud of for me, said the birthday parties I had thrown him had all been for me , and when he looks at me , he wants to kill himself. Said he doesn't love me .I took it. Therapist did not step in .</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="WiseChoices, post: 753364, member: 24254"] I am in Europe at the moment. It is 11:30 am here. I am so very sorry for your worry and fear about Kay. I understand you so well! I have been sick with fear and worry about loved ones on drugs. It is a dreadful experience. And you already have the solution: Al-Anon and its teachings .You can only take care of yourself and turn Kay over to God. And you know that . And it's hard. It is so much harder with our children than with anyone else. My heart is with you, dear Busy. I am praying for you and Kay. I pray for a miracle for your daughter. And that she be safe always. You are right: it is easier to have a healthy relationship with a healthy person . I have done some soul searching while navigating through the airport and, in tears, I have to admit that Copa is right: both of my adult children have been abusive to me. I have allowed that. And no matter what they said or did, I always continued to love and forgive, at times mistaking spirituality with self respect. My son was at the therapist in question with me 2 years ago Christmas. And he laid into me verbally calling me a f...... addict (I have been in recovery longer than he has been on Earth), said I had never done anything he could be proud of for me, said the birthday parties I had thrown him had all been for me , and when he looks at me , he wants to kill himself. Said he doesn't love me .I took it. Therapist did not step in . [/QUOTE]
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