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<blockquote data-quote="WiseChoices" data-source="post: 753386" data-attributes="member: 24254"><p>I am so, so sorry your son needs to have a liver biopsy. That is scary and I know how terribly afraid you must feel. I can understand that you want to let him back under these new circumstances .I will pray for your son and your family. </p><p></p><p>My children, both, have done nothing but fight us on our recovery and willingness to work on ourselves .I invited them to my 27 year sobriety talk and was rebuked. I wanted to give them my 27 year Medaillon and they both refused it. So this year, for my 28th, I did not even mention it. </p><p></p><p>I get sarcastic comments about my belief in a higher power , and sometimes when they want to talk about my beliefs and I am willing to share , I get ridiculed. </p><p></p><p>I am focusing on myself now. The physical distance of being in Europe for a month has helped me to detach. I will take the focus off them and get more fully into my own life. I won't ask any questions. I won't make any suggestions. I will only answer their questions , briefly, and not initiate any conversation. With love. Not out of spite. But as self preservation. There are plenty of people who like me, who want to spend time with me, and who ask my guidance in AA or NA and I will focus on all of that.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="WiseChoices, post: 753386, member: 24254"] I am so, so sorry your son needs to have a liver biopsy. That is scary and I know how terribly afraid you must feel. I can understand that you want to let him back under these new circumstances .I will pray for your son and your family. My children, both, have done nothing but fight us on our recovery and willingness to work on ourselves .I invited them to my 27 year sobriety talk and was rebuked. I wanted to give them my 27 year Medaillon and they both refused it. So this year, for my 28th, I did not even mention it. I get sarcastic comments about my belief in a higher power , and sometimes when they want to talk about my beliefs and I am willing to share , I get ridiculed. I am focusing on myself now. The physical distance of being in Europe for a month has helped me to detach. I will take the focus off them and get more fully into my own life. I won't ask any questions. I won't make any suggestions. I will only answer their questions , briefly, and not initiate any conversation. With love. Not out of spite. But as self preservation. There are plenty of people who like me, who want to spend time with me, and who ask my guidance in AA or NA and I will focus on all of that. [/QUOTE]
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