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<blockquote data-quote="timer lady" data-source="post: 200688" data-attributes="member: 393"><p><span style="color: Navy"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'">toto,</span></span></span></p><p><span style="color: Navy"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'"></span></span></span></p><p><span style="color: Navy"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'">I've learned to watch for the triggers out of both of the tweedles & go into warrior mum mode. <img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/Graemlins/warrior.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":warrior:" title="warrior :warrior:" data-shortname=":warrior:" /></span></span></span></p><p><span style="color: Navy"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'"></span></span></span></p><p><span style="color: Navy"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'">Over the years, as you have, I've learned what to watch for in both kt & wm (though wm isn't as much of a concern for me because of group home) & switch gears quickly.</span></span></span></p><p><span style="color: Navy"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'"></span></span></span></p><p><span style="color: Navy"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'">Meltdown mode, rages or mania are not times to lecture or judge anger ~ that anger (at least in my tweedles) was seldom remembered. As they aged & learned more self calming skills, I still don't judge the anger, I do, however hold them more accountable for their actions during these times. </span></span></span></p><p><span style="color: Navy"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'"></span></span></span></p><p><span style="color: Navy"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'">toto, it's an ever evolving exercise and/or balancing act with our difficult children. You've done well the little time you've been here - I've seen a growth in you. <img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/Graemlins/warrior.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":warrior:" title="warrior :warrior:" data-shortname=":warrior:" /><img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/emoticons/bigsmile.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":bigsmile:" title="big smile :bigsmile:" data-shortname=":bigsmile:" /></span></span></span></p><p><span style="color: Navy"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'"></span></span></span></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="timer lady, post: 200688, member: 393"] [COLOR=Navy][SIZE=3][FONT=Comic Sans MS]toto, I've learned to watch for the triggers out of both of the tweedles & go into warrior mum mode. :warrior: Over the years, as you have, I've learned what to watch for in both kt & wm (though wm isn't as much of a concern for me because of group home) & switch gears quickly. Meltdown mode, rages or mania are not times to lecture or judge anger ~ that anger (at least in my tweedles) was seldom remembered. As they aged & learned more self calming skills, I still don't judge the anger, I do, however hold them more accountable for their actions during these times. toto, it's an ever evolving exercise and/or balancing act with our difficult children. You've done well the little time you've been here - I've seen a growth in you. :warrior::bigsmile: [/FONT][/SIZE][/COLOR] [/QUOTE]
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