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<blockquote data-quote="DoneDad" data-source="post: 747699" data-attributes="member: 17244"><p>I would treat him like a rattlesnake and keep my distance. He’s obviously trying to involve you in some kind of scam with the cash transfer app. He’s accusing your husband of assault and domestic violence ( both potentially serious felonies). Probably so he can play the victim and take the focus off himself and his behaviors. And to make you feel guilty and responsible so you continue enabling him. </p><p></p><p>I would be very hesitant to ever have him in my home again. As far as the therapy, if it’s really important to you, maybe schedule an individual session with the counselor and explain the reality of the situation. Or send them a copy of what you posted. </p><p></p><p>It sounds like the therapy is just another opportunity for him to abuse and manipulate you. What is the point of you attending these sessions? </p><p></p><p>If he is serious about making changes in his behavior, the first step is taking responsibility for his own actions. He’s not doing that. He’s still blaming and deflecting. Sitting and listening while he blames you and your husband for his problems is abusive to you and counterproductive for him. I wouldn’t have any part of it.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DoneDad, post: 747699, member: 17244"] I would treat him like a rattlesnake and keep my distance. He’s obviously trying to involve you in some kind of scam with the cash transfer app. He’s accusing your husband of assault and domestic violence ( both potentially serious felonies). Probably so he can play the victim and take the focus off himself and his behaviors. And to make you feel guilty and responsible so you continue enabling him. I would be very hesitant to ever have him in my home again. As far as the therapy, if it’s really important to you, maybe schedule an individual session with the counselor and explain the reality of the situation. Or send them a copy of what you posted. It sounds like the therapy is just another opportunity for him to abuse and manipulate you. What is the point of you attending these sessions? If he is serious about making changes in his behavior, the first step is taking responsibility for his own actions. He’s not doing that. He’s still blaming and deflecting. Sitting and listening while he blames you and your husband for his problems is abusive to you and counterproductive for him. I wouldn’t have any part of it. [/QUOTE]
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