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This has been gnawing at me...
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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 747721" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>I would very calmly tell the counselor that your son is rewriting history. That your husband used crack decades before you even met him and that your son is trying to use this as a weapon against you. I would also tell the counselor that your son is giving a very false picture of life in your home, and that you don't appreciate it. That he is trying to scam you with this cash app (it may very well be one where he can get into your accounts once you send him money. I don't know the app, but I do know apps like this are out there!) Make sure that both your son AND the counselor know that you will participate in therapy but the focus must be your son and his delusions about your life. If he cannot give up these delusions about your husband abusing you, and about trying to get money from you, then you won't be part of things. </p><p></p><p>I know you want the best for your son, but he is triangulating here and he is misleading the therapist. Be very calm when you say these things. Let your son get all agitated. It will show the therapist the problem behaviors that your son has. Insist that your son support himself and NOT live with you when he gets out of rehab. If he doesn't have to support himself, he will have too much idle time to use and get into other trouble. </p><p></p><p>Just my opinion, of course.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 747721, member: 1233"] I would very calmly tell the counselor that your son is rewriting history. That your husband used crack decades before you even met him and that your son is trying to use this as a weapon against you. I would also tell the counselor that your son is giving a very false picture of life in your home, and that you don't appreciate it. That he is trying to scam you with this cash app (it may very well be one where he can get into your accounts once you send him money. I don't know the app, but I do know apps like this are out there!) Make sure that both your son AND the counselor know that you will participate in therapy but the focus must be your son and his delusions about your life. If he cannot give up these delusions about your husband abusing you, and about trying to get money from you, then you won't be part of things. I know you want the best for your son, but he is triangulating here and he is misleading the therapist. Be very calm when you say these things. Let your son get all agitated. It will show the therapist the problem behaviors that your son has. Insist that your son support himself and NOT live with you when he gets out of rehab. If he doesn't have to support himself, he will have too much idle time to use and get into other trouble. Just my opinion, of course. [/QUOTE]
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