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<blockquote data-quote="busywend" data-source="post: 74798" data-attributes="member: 391"><p>I know it hurts, but it has nothing to do with you. It has everything to do with the pain they feel from their mother not wanting them. You can NOT take it personally. It is not about you. It is about their feels and emotional well being. </p><p></p><p>Not trying to be harsh - but you have to make situations like this completely about them and what is best for them. You will never understand how they feel and they know it. </p><p></p><p>Imagine the mother/child bond - broken. How devastating that must be. </p><p></p><p>As far as getting help. Start over. Whoever you were going through - forget them. They are not helpful. Find some other route. You do not want them as your team anyway - they are unreliable. </p><p></p><p>Who treats the 15yo? And why can't the 12yo use the same doctor?</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="busywend, post: 74798, member: 391"] I know it hurts, but it has nothing to do with you. It has everything to do with the pain they feel from their mother not wanting them. You can NOT take it personally. It is not about you. It is about their feels and emotional well being. Not trying to be harsh - but you have to make situations like this completely about them and what is best for them. You will never understand how they feel and they know it. Imagine the mother/child bond - broken. How devastating that must be. As far as getting help. Start over. Whoever you were going through - forget them. They are not helpful. Find some other route. You do not want them as your team anyway - they are unreliable. Who treats the 15yo? And why can't the 12yo use the same doctor? [/QUOTE]
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