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<blockquote data-quote="DammitJanet" data-source="post: 576246" data-attributes="member: 1514"><p>Honey, if I had much of a chance for change, I wouldnt still be here. However, Im not allowing Buck to run me out of the home I bought and paid for with my own money. I will never be able to buy another place for myself and my parents are dead. I have no siblings unlike Buck and Tony. However I dont expect anyone else to take care of me when Im old, I plan on a nursing home. I wouldnt expect my family to do that. I cant imagine myself calling my cousins up in MA and asking them for help! I would be too ashamed. </p><p></p><p>Tony and I had it out again tonight. Somehow he always manages to throw in at the very end of the fight that one day I just might be in Bucks position because he can walk out the door at anytime and I will be left disabled and alone. I have no clue why he wants to make those comments to me. I dont say them to him. It reminds me of what Dr Phil calls "right fighting". Well actually it isnt even that because Tony isnt right in this case. I have worked incredibly hard on learning how to fight fair but Tony just takes it to the mat when I attempt to fight fair. If I even slip one iota he takes that one word and uses it as a weapon. And always at full volume. It is very hard to fight and argue when you have a mouthful of gauze! </p><p></p><p>Im trying to say that my feelings (notice feeling words!) are that Buck was obviously not as happy as Tony thought he was down here because as soon as he got a chance he hightailed it right back to where he had lived for most of his life. I said the best thing for him would be for him to stay up there because we cannot afford to take care of him and he doesnt have other friends down here. We cannot be his be all and end all. He is better off up there all the way around. Tony just goes off on me about how I just dont care and work against him and blah blah blah. Beats the hell out of me.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DammitJanet, post: 576246, member: 1514"] Honey, if I had much of a chance for change, I wouldnt still be here. However, Im not allowing Buck to run me out of the home I bought and paid for with my own money. I will never be able to buy another place for myself and my parents are dead. I have no siblings unlike Buck and Tony. However I dont expect anyone else to take care of me when Im old, I plan on a nursing home. I wouldnt expect my family to do that. I cant imagine myself calling my cousins up in MA and asking them for help! I would be too ashamed. Tony and I had it out again tonight. Somehow he always manages to throw in at the very end of the fight that one day I just might be in Bucks position because he can walk out the door at anytime and I will be left disabled and alone. I have no clue why he wants to make those comments to me. I dont say them to him. It reminds me of what Dr Phil calls "right fighting". Well actually it isnt even that because Tony isnt right in this case. I have worked incredibly hard on learning how to fight fair but Tony just takes it to the mat when I attempt to fight fair. If I even slip one iota he takes that one word and uses it as a weapon. And always at full volume. It is very hard to fight and argue when you have a mouthful of gauze! Im trying to say that my feelings (notice feeling words!) are that Buck was obviously not as happy as Tony thought he was down here because as soon as he got a chance he hightailed it right back to where he had lived for most of his life. I said the best thing for him would be for him to stay up there because we cannot afford to take care of him and he doesnt have other friends down here. We cannot be his be all and end all. He is better off up there all the way around. Tony just goes off on me about how I just dont care and work against him and blah blah blah. Beats the hell out of me. [/QUOTE]
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