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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember1" data-source="post: 752028" data-attributes="member: 23706"><p>Hi and welcome. Can you son apply for SSDI? in my opinion its not good for them to depend on money from us because that not only doesn't force them to do ANYTHING for themselves, including learning how to apply for services, but some day we will not be here and we don't need them to be ten or twenty years older and still unable to get government services in case they still need them. Some are too lazy to fill out a form, but they have to learn how to do it and then do it. If not SSDI, I think they can apply for welfare if indigent but am not sure. They can apply for food share and Medicaid. And they should. Also Section 8. If they won't work then they need to know how to survive using the system. </p><p></p><p>We did not allow our daughter to learn how to do these things and now she won't. </p><p></p><p>I hope you keep enjoying your life with this good man. Why do we worry? Love and guilt, I think. And we still think of them as our children we should care for. But they are adults and do what they want and some are outright unpleasant to us. It's not easy but we have to give them to God if God is in our lives. </p><p></p><p>Blessings and be well.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember1, post: 752028, member: 23706"] Hi and welcome. Can you son apply for SSDI? in my opinion its not good for them to depend on money from us because that not only doesn't force them to do ANYTHING for themselves, including learning how to apply for services, but some day we will not be here and we don't need them to be ten or twenty years older and still unable to get government services in case they still need them. Some are too lazy to fill out a form, but they have to learn how to do it and then do it. If not SSDI, I think they can apply for welfare if indigent but am not sure. They can apply for food share and Medicaid. And they should. Also Section 8. If they won't work then they need to know how to survive using the system. We did not allow our daughter to learn how to do these things and now she won't. I hope you keep enjoying your life with this good man. Why do we worry? Love and guilt, I think. And we still think of them as our children we should care for. But they are adults and do what they want and some are outright unpleasant to us. It's not easy but we have to give them to God if God is in our lives. Blessings and be well. [/QUOTE]
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