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<blockquote data-quote="buddy" data-source="post: 485238" data-attributes="member: 12886"><p>OH good, I am up with you, it is only 11:30 here though, smile. Watching Jim Carey in how the grinch stole christmas, so cute.</p><p></p><p>I have been ruminating on our doctor visit and the shock that in one week (not even) he is up 2 more pounds. Just doesn't seem healthy even if he is "growing". </p><p></p><p>I am not worried at this moment that he is too big, he is not. But what happens if it continues....</p><p></p><p>anyway.... Sorry you can't sleep.... You have a lot going through your mind. I think the situation seems much like Q too when he gets carried away with play... a little bit knowing he is being rough but not fully knowing the impact. They just get so into it and dont get the full force of what they are doing. If he had just out of the blue or in anger gone after and pulled his shirt to "get him" that would be very different in my mind. But it does speak to having the Occupational Therapist (OT) or that other therapist keep working with you. IF he will that is......</p><p></p><p>Your baby is gonna be 5! I surely hope his friend comes. Kids get over this stuff really quickly. My neices and nephews have grown up together. I mean even go to school together every day... really more like bro and sis. but they fight like arrrgggg... sometimes makes you wanna put them out in the snow and leave them there. The boys are getting out of it now that they are in middle school, but the girls fight and cry and tell, then are besties for a while.... and the fights are intense at times. mostly they are good together.</p><p></p><p>It is crazy how best friends love eachother one minute then dont the next,. my sister used to try to help, now realizes it is just what it is...they learn to negotiate and handle conflict so she stays out of it.</p><p></p><p>I know I already said this, but yes, this can be just typical behavior (I have lived it with many many kids who have no diagnosis and are doing fine in life) but I think the whole message on this board is to trust the mommy (parent) gut and putting this together with your other concerns, there may be something going on. I would not think he is going to end up a threat to society. Too many positive signs out of him...smile. But certainly some kind of neurological differences. I think the fact that it is kind of elusive, makes you the perfect mom for him. You will, if anyone can, get to the bottom of it. But you need to balance that with overall enjoyment in life. You do describe lots of fun things he and you do so I am not saying you seem miserable or anything, lol. Just saying take time to enjoy, love, laugh. As much as you can since you have said you feel there are some milder attachment things not only on his part but yours. </p><p></p><p>So, after reading this, did it make you wanna sleep....was going for the boring post award...lol</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="buddy, post: 485238, member: 12886"] OH good, I am up with you, it is only 11:30 here though, smile. Watching Jim Carey in how the grinch stole christmas, so cute. I have been ruminating on our doctor visit and the shock that in one week (not even) he is up 2 more pounds. Just doesn't seem healthy even if he is "growing". I am not worried at this moment that he is too big, he is not. But what happens if it continues.... anyway.... Sorry you can't sleep.... You have a lot going through your mind. I think the situation seems much like Q too when he gets carried away with play... a little bit knowing he is being rough but not fully knowing the impact. They just get so into it and dont get the full force of what they are doing. If he had just out of the blue or in anger gone after and pulled his shirt to "get him" that would be very different in my mind. But it does speak to having the Occupational Therapist (OT) or that other therapist keep working with you. IF he will that is...... Your baby is gonna be 5! I surely hope his friend comes. Kids get over this stuff really quickly. My neices and nephews have grown up together. I mean even go to school together every day... really more like bro and sis. but they fight like arrrgggg... sometimes makes you wanna put them out in the snow and leave them there. The boys are getting out of it now that they are in middle school, but the girls fight and cry and tell, then are besties for a while.... and the fights are intense at times. mostly they are good together. It is crazy how best friends love eachother one minute then dont the next,. my sister used to try to help, now realizes it is just what it is...they learn to negotiate and handle conflict so she stays out of it. I know I already said this, but yes, this can be just typical behavior (I have lived it with many many kids who have no diagnosis and are doing fine in life) but I think the whole message on this board is to trust the mommy (parent) gut and putting this together with your other concerns, there may be something going on. I would not think he is going to end up a threat to society. Too many positive signs out of him...smile. But certainly some kind of neurological differences. I think the fact that it is kind of elusive, makes you the perfect mom for him. You will, if anyone can, get to the bottom of it. But you need to balance that with overall enjoyment in life. You do describe lots of fun things he and you do so I am not saying you seem miserable or anything, lol. Just saying take time to enjoy, love, laugh. As much as you can since you have said you feel there are some milder attachment things not only on his part but yours. So, after reading this, did it make you wanna sleep....was going for the boring post award...lol [/QUOTE]
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