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<blockquote data-quote="klmno" data-source="post: 230404" data-attributes="member: 3699"><p>I've been emailed- meeting tomorrow will only last one hour. That's supposed to have all iep issues, including his not getting to school, discussed and agreed upon and written up. Ha Ha.... I wish they would go ahead and tell me if there's any chance at all of them recommending the fapt thru this. If not, I'd go to courthouse right now and ask for a hearing.</p><p></p><p>difficult child- he's so obviously unstable. But the more I see him as unstable the more I get depressed, more I get frustrated, and more I love him.</p><p></p><p>He seemed so stable last night. Then woke up in a rage and refused to take medications. Then got out of bed and locked himself in office to get on computer and cranked up music with filthy lyrics. My guess is that he was also looking up porn. Then, about 10:00, he came out and took medications and was sweet. Then, he locked himself in his bedroom- I think with a razor in there. Please don't ask why I don't search his room and take it. It isn't that easy and I do search his rooom when he's not home and take anything inappropriate or dangerous. </p><p></p><p>Then, he came out and ate. He's been in his room the rest of the time on a cleaning spree. He's being as sweet as he can be but he's on a mission now. And, he just came downstairs to tell me he's going to take the sd to the supreme court because the clocks in his school are set 5 mins off real time. He let me kiss him on the cheek. Me on the other hand, sit here trying not to cry and can't find motivation to do any cleaning. And the rest of the house seriously needs it.</p><p></p><p>Well- he hasn't been agressive/violent in 8 days now- I tend to think that part was the depakote. I just hate it that we are probably looking at Residential Treatment Center (RTC) situation even though he can go mos and be stable- my therapist yesterday said "but it could take a while to get him stable from this and he was aggressive toward you last week- he should be in Residential Treatment Center (RTC)". I don't see why- I just want help with him. He isn't agressive all the time and he's not cycling all the time. But when he is, geez, all I can think is that he HAS to go live somewhere else. But today is one of those days where he clearly isn't stable but I'm really not mad at him.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="klmno, post: 230404, member: 3699"] I've been emailed- meeting tomorrow will only last one hour. That's supposed to have all iep issues, including his not getting to school, discussed and agreed upon and written up. Ha Ha.... I wish they would go ahead and tell me if there's any chance at all of them recommending the fapt thru this. If not, I'd go to courthouse right now and ask for a hearing. difficult child- he's so obviously unstable. But the more I see him as unstable the more I get depressed, more I get frustrated, and more I love him. He seemed so stable last night. Then woke up in a rage and refused to take medications. Then got out of bed and locked himself in office to get on computer and cranked up music with filthy lyrics. My guess is that he was also looking up porn. Then, about 10:00, he came out and took medications and was sweet. Then, he locked himself in his bedroom- I think with a razor in there. Please don't ask why I don't search his room and take it. It isn't that easy and I do search his rooom when he's not home and take anything inappropriate or dangerous. Then, he came out and ate. He's been in his room the rest of the time on a cleaning spree. He's being as sweet as he can be but he's on a mission now. And, he just came downstairs to tell me he's going to take the sd to the supreme court because the clocks in his school are set 5 mins off real time. He let me kiss him on the cheek. Me on the other hand, sit here trying not to cry and can't find motivation to do any cleaning. And the rest of the house seriously needs it. Well- he hasn't been agressive/violent in 8 days now- I tend to think that part was the depakote. I just hate it that we are probably looking at Residential Treatment Center (RTC) situation even though he can go mos and be stable- my therapist yesterday said "but it could take a while to get him stable from this and he was aggressive toward you last week- he should be in Residential Treatment Center (RTC)". I don't see why- I just want help with him. He isn't agressive all the time and he's not cycling all the time. But when he is, geez, all I can think is that he HAS to go live somewhere else. But today is one of those days where he clearly isn't stable but I'm really not mad at him. [/QUOTE]
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