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<blockquote data-quote="keista" data-source="post: 528036" data-attributes="member: 11965"><p>((((HUGS)))) So sorry for your family's loss.</p><p></p><p>Please allow me to play devil's advocate. *Maybe*, just maybe difficult child was not trying to make easy child 1 cry but was trying to make herself feel better. Yes, it's the other side of the same coin. But this is her defect - she can only feel better is someone else is getting cut down. Of course the ideal is to correct this behavior in her, but until (if ever) this is corrected, you and easy child 1 and everyone else must see her behavior for what it is. Not so much putting others down, but trying to build herself up. If you all refuse to get put down, then she'll have to find a different method (or at least maybe she'll give up because it takes too much effort)</p><p></p><p>It's hard enough to ignore a bully. Harder still if the bully is in your house, but in my opinion if you ignore or respond with matter-of-factness to her attempts, at the very least you will save yourselves some heart ache.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="keista, post: 528036, member: 11965"] ((((HUGS)))) So sorry for your family's loss. Please allow me to play devil's advocate. *Maybe*, just maybe difficult child was not trying to make easy child 1 cry but was trying to make herself feel better. Yes, it's the other side of the same coin. But this is her defect - she can only feel better is someone else is getting cut down. Of course the ideal is to correct this behavior in her, but until (if ever) this is corrected, you and easy child 1 and everyone else must see her behavior for what it is. Not so much putting others down, but trying to build herself up. If you all refuse to get put down, then she'll have to find a different method (or at least maybe she'll give up because it takes too much effort) It's hard enough to ignore a bully. Harder still if the bully is in your house, but in my opinion if you ignore or respond with matter-of-factness to her attempts, at the very least you will save yourselves some heart ache. [/QUOTE]
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