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Threats of havoc, how do I react?
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 639620" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Oragami...he does not sound stable. He hit his girlfriend?</p><p></p><p>I'm not going to give my normal advice because you are not ready. I do think it is a good idea to warn your daughter because people who "get revenge" can be dangerous. She probably needs to learn to leave him alone, not because she does wrong things, but because he is a loose cannon.</p><p></p><p>It may help your entire family if you could all get into therapy. The dynamics are threatening to all and maybe a professional can get you working on things in the most constructive, realistic way. I do not think we, as posters, or yourselves, as parents, can handle this without professional help. So going to somebody with lots of knowledge is my suggestion. If your entire family refuses to go, which is common in dysfunctional families, YOU can still go and lay it all out and ask this professional what he thinks you should do. I recommend a psychologist, probably a woman (I really favor females as therapists). Do not try to do this yourself. It is too stressful and frankly you, and the rest of us, do not have the knowledge to know how to handle so many complicated relationships. Your son is a troubled young man and you don't know what he may or may do one day without help. You're right...he is mean. My son was mean too and he eventually followed through with his threats. I think this warrants outside support.</p><p></p><p>I"m so sorry,</p><p></p><p>Hugs and hope for the best. Hope you see that psychologist <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 639620, member: 1550"] Oragami...he does not sound stable. He hit his girlfriend? I'm not going to give my normal advice because you are not ready. I do think it is a good idea to warn your daughter because people who "get revenge" can be dangerous. She probably needs to learn to leave him alone, not because she does wrong things, but because he is a loose cannon. It may help your entire family if you could all get into therapy. The dynamics are threatening to all and maybe a professional can get you working on things in the most constructive, realistic way. I do not think we, as posters, or yourselves, as parents, can handle this without professional help. So going to somebody with lots of knowledge is my suggestion. If your entire family refuses to go, which is common in dysfunctional families, YOU can still go and lay it all out and ask this professional what he thinks you should do. I recommend a psychologist, probably a woman (I really favor females as therapists). Do not try to do this yourself. It is too stressful and frankly you, and the rest of us, do not have the knowledge to know how to handle so many complicated relationships. Your son is a troubled young man and you don't know what he may or may do one day without help. You're right...he is mean. My son was mean too and he eventually followed through with his threats. I think this warrants outside support. I"m so sorry, Hugs and hope for the best. Hope you see that psychologist :) [/QUOTE]
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