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Threats of havoc, how do I react?
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<blockquote data-quote="GuideMe" data-source="post: 639888" data-attributes="member: 18233"><p>Sorry, love you MWM, but I completely disagree with you on this one. "In my opinion, there is no excuse for violence or threats of violence (which is a form of violence) no matter what the situation". We are not robots MWM, we are all humans. I'm sure you've done it, I done it, we all done it. Did he follow through on any of those threats? No he did not. Just because he said those things in reaction, doesn't automatically cast him into being 100% wrong with no way out. We all say and do things when we are angry, especially since our feelings are not being validated.</p><p></p><p>About the shoving, no one knows the full truth about his girlfriend, only he and his girlfriend do. However, the last person that should be talking to girlfriend about it is the sister of the person who hit her (if that's indeed what happened). I was just pointing out that her son was technically right about sister medalling in with his personal business and relationships, you just said it yourself. It already seems Orgami is taking sides. So, I was pointing out to Orgami that it was a boundary that sister shouldn't have been crossed, so if she is going to be upset, be mad at daughter, not at son. He didn't do anything wrong in this situation and no one backs him up when he is right. You don't have to get involved in sibbling disputes, but you do have a duty as a parent to draw the line somewhere. You and I agreed on that on Orgamis thanksgiving thread.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="GuideMe, post: 639888, member: 18233"] Sorry, love you MWM, but I completely disagree with you on this one. "In my opinion, there is no excuse for violence or threats of violence (which is a form of violence) no matter what the situation". We are not robots MWM, we are all humans. I'm sure you've done it, I done it, we all done it. Did he follow through on any of those threats? No he did not. Just because he said those things in reaction, doesn't automatically cast him into being 100% wrong with no way out. We all say and do things when we are angry, especially since our feelings are not being validated. About the shoving, no one knows the full truth about his girlfriend, only he and his girlfriend do. However, the last person that should be talking to girlfriend about it is the sister of the person who hit her (if that's indeed what happened). I was just pointing out that her son was technically right about sister medalling in with his personal business and relationships, you just said it yourself. It already seems Orgami is taking sides. So, I was pointing out to Orgami that it was a boundary that sister shouldn't have been crossed, so if she is going to be upset, be mad at daughter, not at son. He didn't do anything wrong in this situation and no one backs him up when he is right. You don't have to get involved in sibbling disputes, but you do have a duty as a parent to draw the line somewhere. You and I agreed on that on Orgamis thanksgiving thread. [/QUOTE]
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