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I feel your struggle. I understand the lack of support. I went (and kind of still am) through that. DEX is fun dad and Im evil mom ALL the time. Very frustrating. I have learned through the years that there HAS HAS HAS to be a constant acceptance on how the child is raised. If husband shows he is against something evil mommy is doing, then it blows everything away. If you tell him that not being completely in agreement on medications, or information, then your child will grow up confused and will act out more so than if you come from a united front. How to get your husband there is beyond me. I am just now finally getting DEX to understand that what he is doing and have been doing has not helped difficult child at all. But of course it took his girlfriend to "show him the light" even though what she told him is what Ive been telling him for years.