{{{{{Hugs}}}} I know what you are going through. (read my post its called "a long vent from a sort of a newbie" or something like that.)
My difficult child also doesnt have very many kids who like her either. We have a girl across the street who wanted to come over all of the time but lately she hasnt been over. Most likely because difficult child tried her best in the beginning to act 'normal' but after awhile that gets exhausting and she goes back to not listening, pushing for her way and her way only and her acting a lot more immature than her age. I feel so bad for her.
Only thing I can tell you is to keep trying to get her to meet new friends and work on teaching her the right way to interreact with them. Talk about senerios that may happen. It worked for my difficult child for a little while but her ODD is on the rampage and our lessons are going no where so now she has no friends.
