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<blockquote data-quote="serenityprayer" data-source="post: 322660" data-attributes="member: 8421"><p>Thanks Wipedout <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite8" alt=":D" title="Big Grin :D" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":D" />...it was fun to play the music and I also asked him to finish the vacuuming and mopping...ha ha he could not refuse. He always tries to act just fine but I could tell he was really hungover hurting!</p><p> </p><p>TerryJ2...you are soooo funny! I really got some giggles from your post!!!!<img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/tongue.png" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":tongue:" title="tongue :tongue:" data-shortname=":tongue:" /> I am going to get a copy of that book for next year, LOL!!!!!!!! Yay for chess!!!!!!!!!<img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite2" alt=";)" title="Wink ;)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=";)" /></p><p> </p><p>Marg,</p><p>I can completely see what you are saying...you are so sweet to write so much to help me, thank you so much! Your advice pretty much mirrors my attitude about it..in fact it is truly my own fault for going over there anyhow. Of course I think the drinking problems and lack of parenting to their own kids will not be present on a holiday...how codepependent of me, lol. When it comes down to it...they have always had an extreme "superiority complex" with everyone...not just me. I did feel bad about the drunk brothers behavior but I will say it was not the normal "boo" or peek a boo situation...thats what made it so unreal. It was so loud and disturbing that the entire house stopped in horror. Like a bomb had hit the house....people all over the city had to hear it! In his drunk stuper he also told me he has tried it with his son outside earlier and the poor 5 year old kid fell backwards and hurt himself...so that did not stop him from doing it with my difficult child...ummmm that is the 10 shots talking LOL!!!!!!!!<img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite2" alt=";)" title="Wink ;)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=";)" /></p><p> </p><p>Wow..the drunk host (drunk brothers sister LOL) is the one who got me the worst..you should have heard her telling me to just look (seriously insisted on me staring at him) at my son...he is so smart and gifted...like I am abusing him. She went on and on about how she has had conversations with him before and he is an old soul who has lived so many lives and way smarter then us cuz he looks up as he talks...tapping into wisdom unlike others. That she hears him when he is melting down cuz we live so close and insenuating I am overreacting. LMAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!<img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/laugh.png" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":laugh:" title="laugh :laugh:" data-shortname=":laugh:" /> I did not even try to defend myself because she was drunk. What was sad is that most of the kids were upstairs the entire time stuck in a room while the adults partied hardy. No gametime or involving the kids in anything...so unlike our family, it was so sad to me.<img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/emoticons/faint.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":faint:" title="faint :faint:" data-shortname=":faint:" /></p><p> </p><p>I agree....I think husband was a big part of the problem...he was drunk and was talking to the host when I came back in. I can only imagine how bad the talking got later on that night when inhibitions were really gone. As soon as I came back in..she grabbed me and sat me down where husband had been talking to her and started in on me. Happy Thanksgiving to me! LOL!!!!!!!! The worst part is how bad the kids felt when Daddy did not come home on Thanksgiving and I dealt with some serious meltdowns. <img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/felttip/sad-very.png" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":sad-very:" title="sad-very :sad-very:" data-shortname=":sad-very:" /></p><p> </p><p>Funny, cuz they had asked my husband about coming to Thanksgiving a month prior and he said he would talk to me. I told him we could walk over for an hour or so to say hi...then in front of me a week or so ago she asked again and he said absolutely & said what we were bringing etc. as I watched in horror. I should have put my foot down right there...but I remember being out of it on pain medications from my illness and I could not fight. Then I told myself it would be ok cuz I would not have to cook. LOL!!! The lies we tell ourself, ha ha!!!!!!!!!!!!!!</p><p> </p><p>Thanks for the encouragement and love........I so appreciate it!!!!!!!! I am sure I will be able to bring some crazy stories in the future LOL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!</p><p> </p><p>HUGS <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite8" alt=":D" title="Big Grin :D" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":D" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="serenityprayer, post: 322660, member: 8421"] Thanks Wipedout :happy:...it was fun to play the music and I also asked him to finish the vacuuming and mopping...ha ha he could not refuse. He always tries to act just fine but I could tell he was really hungover hurting! TerryJ2...you are soooo funny! I really got some giggles from your post!!!!:raspberry-tounge: I am going to get a copy of that book for next year, LOL!!!!!!!! Yay for chess!!!!!!!!!:winking: Marg, I can completely see what you are saying...you are so sweet to write so much to help me, thank you so much! Your advice pretty much mirrors my attitude about it..in fact it is truly my own fault for going over there anyhow. Of course I think the drinking problems and lack of parenting to their own kids will not be present on a holiday...how codepependent of me, lol. When it comes down to it...they have always had an extreme "superiority complex" with everyone...not just me. I did feel bad about the drunk brothers behavior but I will say it was not the normal "boo" or peek a boo situation...thats what made it so unreal. It was so loud and disturbing that the entire house stopped in horror. Like a bomb had hit the house....people all over the city had to hear it! In his drunk stuper he also told me he has tried it with his son outside earlier and the poor 5 year old kid fell backwards and hurt himself...so that did not stop him from doing it with my difficult child...ummmm that is the 10 shots talking LOL!!!!!!!!:winking: Wow..the drunk host (drunk brothers sister LOL) is the one who got me the worst..you should have heard her telling me to just look (seriously insisted on me staring at him) at my son...he is so smart and gifted...like I am abusing him. She went on and on about how she has had conversations with him before and he is an old soul who has lived so many lives and way smarter then us cuz he looks up as he talks...tapping into wisdom unlike others. That she hears him when he is melting down cuz we live so close and insenuating I am overreacting. LMAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!:funny: I did not even try to defend myself because she was drunk. What was sad is that most of the kids were upstairs the entire time stuck in a room while the adults partied hardy. No gametime or involving the kids in anything...so unlike our family, it was so sad to me.:knockedout: I agree....I think husband was a big part of the problem...he was drunk and was talking to the host when I came back in. I can only imagine how bad the talking got later on that night when inhibitions were really gone. As soon as I came back in..she grabbed me and sat me down where husband had been talking to her and started in on me. Happy Thanksgiving to me! LOL!!!!!!!! The worst part is how bad the kids felt when Daddy did not come home on Thanksgiving and I dealt with some serious meltdowns. :sad-very: Funny, cuz they had asked my husband about coming to Thanksgiving a month prior and he said he would talk to me. I told him we could walk over for an hour or so to say hi...then in front of me a week or so ago she asked again and he said absolutely & said what we were bringing etc. as I watched in horror. I should have put my foot down right there...but I remember being out of it on pain medications from my illness and I could not fight. Then I told myself it would be ok cuz I would not have to cook. LOL!!! The lies we tell ourself, ha ha!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Thanks for the encouragement and love........I so appreciate it!!!!!!!! I am sure I will be able to bring some crazy stories in the future LOL!!!!!!!!!!!!!! HUGS :happy: [/QUOTE]
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