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To cuddle or not to cuddle (after a rage)??
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<blockquote data-quote="InsaneCdn" data-source="post: 519213" data-attributes="member: 11791"><p>Our was was never extreme, so this may not help... but we found that some rages, we knew <em>exactly where they came from.</em> For example... dinner is late (my fault), and rage comes half an hour after when dinner should have been? Those ones, where the trigger was legitimate and totally out of the child's control, we definitely "cuddled" or equivalent once they were under control. But... where we didn't know the trigger? we weren't so fast to be accepting... played it more wait-and-see. As we got better at knowing our child... we got better at not messing up at home (delay dinner? sure... that means an extra-big snack), and had far fewer to deal with... Unfortunately, some triggers are out of our sight, knowledge and control - school, friends, etc. </p><p></p><p>So much depends on the source of the rage... and it is NOT easy to get to the bottom of this, often multiple contributory factors...</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="InsaneCdn, post: 519213, member: 11791"] Our was was never extreme, so this may not help... but we found that some rages, we knew [I]exactly where they came from.[/I] For example... dinner is late (my fault), and rage comes half an hour after when dinner should have been? Those ones, where the trigger was legitimate and totally out of the child's control, we definitely "cuddled" or equivalent once they were under control. But... where we didn't know the trigger? we weren't so fast to be accepting... played it more wait-and-see. As we got better at knowing our child... we got better at not messing up at home (delay dinner? sure... that means an extra-big snack), and had far fewer to deal with... Unfortunately, some triggers are out of our sight, knowledge and control - school, friends, etc. So much depends on the source of the rage... and it is NOT easy to get to the bottom of this, often multiple contributory factors... [/QUOTE]
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