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<blockquote data-quote="lovelyboy" data-source="post: 498847" data-attributes="member: 8045"><p>Thanx MwM! Your words mean alot.....! I do think maybe I am a bit sensitive about this! I am always just so worried that I will cause more damage.....!!!!! My son is very sensitive and take things very bad! We have many adoption stories in our family from husband mom side and mine....so its alot of mixed things thrown in together!</p><p>Buddy...I think you word it maybe better than I could....I like the feeling bubble idea....I havent done any sacial scripts...thought the ST could help me with this.....its still new to me! Must say I was always so nicely focused on the idea of helping him with adoption stuff, but then we ALSO got this Autism Spectrum Disorders (ASD) thing thrown at us and I totally lost direction....and now its like both is catching up, plus preteen hormones kicking in!!!!!</p><p>But you know....as an adoptive parent I have all this fears ,but actually its my moms pain and fears that she planted in my head about her own experiences as an adopted kid, since I was very young. But surprisingly enough my son handles it so different as what I expected....he is seemingly proud of it and it makes him feel special to know we prayed and waited 10 years for him!!!! LOL on the up side...his Autism Spectrum Disorders (ASD) causes him to not catch on to the suttle sarcasms or hints or remarks some people might have towards the adoption thing....for him its more a factual thing.....Nice to also have a positive side to being on the spectrum!!!!<img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="lovelyboy, post: 498847, member: 8045"] Thanx MwM! Your words mean alot.....! I do think maybe I am a bit sensitive about this! I am always just so worried that I will cause more damage.....!!!!! My son is very sensitive and take things very bad! We have many adoption stories in our family from husband mom side and mine....so its alot of mixed things thrown in together! Buddy...I think you word it maybe better than I could....I like the feeling bubble idea....I havent done any sacial scripts...thought the ST could help me with this.....its still new to me! Must say I was always so nicely focused on the idea of helping him with adoption stuff, but then we ALSO got this Autism Spectrum Disorders (ASD) thing thrown at us and I totally lost direction....and now its like both is catching up, plus preteen hormones kicking in!!!!! But you know....as an adoptive parent I have all this fears ,but actually its my moms pain and fears that she planted in my head about her own experiences as an adopted kid, since I was very young. But surprisingly enough my son handles it so different as what I expected....he is seemingly proud of it and it makes him feel special to know we prayed and waited 10 years for him!!!! LOL on the up side...his Autism Spectrum Disorders (ASD) causes him to not catch on to the suttle sarcasms or hints or remarks some people might have towards the adoption thing....for him its more a factual thing.....Nice to also have a positive side to being on the spectrum!!!!:) [/QUOTE]
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