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<blockquote data-quote="Hollie" data-source="post: 697289" data-attributes="member: 20649"><p>Wow I'm new to this and I didn't think anyone would reply.</p><p>So thank u all so much.</p><p></p><p></p><p>Sooo I'm 25yro, only girl with 2 older brothers and my younger (Zane).</p><p>We all left home at 14-15yro.. </p><p>Mum has a good heart, but growing older and smoking weed has fried her. So she has become mentally unstable. Unfortunantly Zane has court the worse end of mums behaviour, and Zane ran away from home at age 13. He was being sent to bed with pop corn or cereal every night, he wasn't aloud to go anywhere, so he'd play his Xbox but then mum would yell at him for always being on it. She gave him anxiety, his was sad, he didn't wanna talk, he'd hide in his room all the time. </p><p></p><p>Mum has not msgd, where r u?, r u ok?, Zane r u safe, not a missed call. She's tried nothing. We've had Mother's Day, and Zanes 14th birthday and not a single form of contact.</p><p></p><p>Zane is a bit on the spoilt side. </p><p>We all have something to do with that coz his our baby bro.. </p><p>He is a very good child, not once did he ever crack a tantrum in the supermarket when he was younger, he always had manners, his a gentlemen to the ladies, his a sweet heart and I so love him dearly.</p><p></p><p>I've only just recovered from my own trauma with mum, 1 of my older bros is still living in his car coz he didn't no how to find his way from 14yro. and never got the right help to guide him for life.</p><p>And I was couch surfing for years, had to find friends to teach me to drive for my lisence, buses bak and forth from state to state, just for plAces to sleep. </p><p>I ended up self harming. I was so far gone in depression. </p><p>So I've been with my partner 5 years Nd 3 of them I had finally found myself, and stable and happy. And I never felt more alive in my own skin. </p><p>Now I feel like my mom has just dumpt this life on me. I'm back in my depression, but there is no way I could let Zane go through the things we did. He has his fathers home, but he doesn't really know him because of mum. </p><p></p><p></p><p>Zane cries when I tell him no, and he can't get what he wants, his doing the why this why that . His taking his fine ass time getting up out of bed for Skool. I've tried taking away his electronics, his skate boarding time etc. he has his cry and winge and then hates on me all day. But apparently I give him way to many opportunities before he's punished. </p><p>But I already feel like an arshole, y do I have to make him hate me more. I'm still dealing with me. (This is where I get emotional) and can't deal with all the y this, y that, stuff mum, and think he's just a kid, he needs u.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Hollie, post: 697289, member: 20649"] Wow I'm new to this and I didn't think anyone would reply. So thank u all so much. Sooo I'm 25yro, only girl with 2 older brothers and my younger (Zane). We all left home at 14-15yro.. Mum has a good heart, but growing older and smoking weed has fried her. So she has become mentally unstable. Unfortunantly Zane has court the worse end of mums behaviour, and Zane ran away from home at age 13. He was being sent to bed with pop corn or cereal every night, he wasn't aloud to go anywhere, so he'd play his Xbox but then mum would yell at him for always being on it. She gave him anxiety, his was sad, he didn't wanna talk, he'd hide in his room all the time. Mum has not msgd, where r u?, r u ok?, Zane r u safe, not a missed call. She's tried nothing. We've had Mother's Day, and Zanes 14th birthday and not a single form of contact. Zane is a bit on the spoilt side. We all have something to do with that coz his our baby bro.. He is a very good child, not once did he ever crack a tantrum in the supermarket when he was younger, he always had manners, his a gentlemen to the ladies, his a sweet heart and I so love him dearly. I've only just recovered from my own trauma with mum, 1 of my older bros is still living in his car coz he didn't no how to find his way from 14yro. and never got the right help to guide him for life. And I was couch surfing for years, had to find friends to teach me to drive for my lisence, buses bak and forth from state to state, just for plAces to sleep. I ended up self harming. I was so far gone in depression. So I've been with my partner 5 years Nd 3 of them I had finally found myself, and stable and happy. And I never felt more alive in my own skin. Now I feel like my mom has just dumpt this life on me. I'm back in my depression, but there is no way I could let Zane go through the things we did. He has his fathers home, but he doesn't really know him because of mum. Zane cries when I tell him no, and he can't get what he wants, his doing the why this why that . His taking his fine ass time getting up out of bed for Skool. I've tried taking away his electronics, his skate boarding time etc. he has his cry and winge and then hates on me all day. But apparently I give him way to many opportunities before he's punished. But I already feel like an arshole, y do I have to make him hate me more. I'm still dealing with me. (This is where I get emotional) and can't deal with all the y this, y that, stuff mum, and think he's just a kid, he needs u. [/QUOTE]
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