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Too many opinions...too much guilt
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<blockquote data-quote="meowbunny" data-source="post: 187523" data-attributes="member: 3626"><p>I think the guilt ends when you see some success -- either with your daughter or her siblings. It is hard to lose our children and when someone else is taking care of them, we feel we've lost them.</p><p> </p><p>As awful as this sounds, I'd leave things the way they are. You have three kids who are happier and safer than they have been in a long time. Your parents and daughter seem to be happy with things as they are. She can come and visit on occasion, especially when the baby is born but until some real transition plans are in place, you'd be making a mistake in having her come home.</p><p> </p><p>Hon, you didn't send your daughter to your parents because it was easier for you but because it was safer for your little ones. That's a hard fact to face -- that your child would harm his/her siblings -- but it is one you do have to face. I'm sorry but I do believe you are doing the best thing for all.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="meowbunny, post: 187523, member: 3626"] I think the guilt ends when you see some success -- either with your daughter or her siblings. It is hard to lose our children and when someone else is taking care of them, we feel we've lost them. As awful as this sounds, I'd leave things the way they are. You have three kids who are happier and safer than they have been in a long time. Your parents and daughter seem to be happy with things as they are. She can come and visit on occasion, especially when the baby is born but until some real transition plans are in place, you'd be making a mistake in having her come home. Hon, you didn't send your daughter to your parents because it was easier for you but because it was safer for your little ones. That's a hard fact to face -- that your child would harm his/her siblings -- but it is one you do have to face. I'm sorry but I do believe you are doing the best thing for all. [/QUOTE]
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