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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 729814" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>I do not think there are ways to guarantee your daughter's safety should your son return. And this is not because your son is a predator. Both children will be cued to resume their sexualized relationship by the situation itself. It would be a set up. Almost like giving consent.</p><p></p><p>We have seen this before where professionals have coerced parents...where there was danger. One can only believe that the system sets this up.... To make parents responsible and liable and to minimize expenditures.</p><p></p><p>If it were me and son's program speaks of reunification I would say from the get go: we will work on family reunification in a neutral and supervised setting, in a treatment setting, with professionals nearby. But not in our residence. When my son is placed in specialized housing, we can continue family reunification in a supervised neutral place. Period. End of story. It is not in my son's best interest to return home.</p><p></p><p>You cannot be on the defensive with them. You set the terms. You know best.</p><p></p><p>When there has been abuse or misconduct between parents, or involving kids, the district attorney in my town insists that visitation transfers be at the courts with officers and social workers nearby.</p><p></p><p>How is this different?</p><p></p><p>This is not about harming your son. It is about protecting and supporting him.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 729814, member: 18958"] I do not think there are ways to guarantee your daughter's safety should your son return. And this is not because your son is a predator. Both children will be cued to resume their sexualized relationship by the situation itself. It would be a set up. Almost like giving consent. We have seen this before where professionals have coerced parents...where there was danger. One can only believe that the system sets this up.... To make parents responsible and liable and to minimize expenditures. If it were me and son's program speaks of reunification I would say from the get go: we will work on family reunification in a neutral and supervised setting, in a treatment setting, with professionals nearby. But not in our residence. When my son is placed in specialized housing, we can continue family reunification in a supervised neutral place. Period. End of story. It is not in my son's best interest to return home. You cannot be on the defensive with them. You set the terms. You know best. When there has been abuse or misconduct between parents, or involving kids, the district attorney in my town insists that visitation transfers be at the courts with officers and social workers nearby. How is this different? This is not about harming your son. It is about protecting and supporting him. [/QUOTE]
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