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<blockquote data-quote="toughlovin" data-source="post: 422205"><p>Thanks Nancy. We have been away on vacation so I am behind...just got home tonight and was going to post an update and saw your post. Thanks for asking.</p><p></p><p>So difficult child came back to the state....he texted my husband which I think I mentioned. Did I? He said he wanted to go to lunch with husband but not me. So a few days ago while we were away he texted my husband that he had gotten a job and applied for community college. husband responded positively...and i also sent him a text saying I was glad he was doing well. No response.</p><p>So today he texted my husband this long text about how he hated to ask but he needs some money to get him through until he gets paid! He said is girlfriend suggested he ask us....this is after she did not respond to my text before he came back but called him and he cussed me out. I think my husband was a little sucked in to his good arguments but he did send him a text that he would not give him money but would take him to lunch. So then the maniipulative text came back to tell mom this and 2 weeks ago is whynwe have a **** relationship. So what if we give him money he is going to have a good relationship with us.....isn't that what we did for months??? Reality he has a roof over his head with girlfriend and I am guessing her mother is providing food... Anyway we are done. husband has a harder time I think although he agrees that we should not give him money. He asked for money sooner than I thought he would. I am getting clearer and clearer that I just need to keepnstepping back. Inwill catch up on posts and see how everyone else is doing.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="toughlovin, post: 422205"] Thanks Nancy. We have been away on vacation so I am behind...just got home tonight and was going to post an update and saw your post. Thanks for asking. So difficult child came back to the state....he texted my husband which I think I mentioned. Did I? He said he wanted to go to lunch with husband but not me. So a few days ago while we were away he texted my husband that he had gotten a job and applied for community college. husband responded positively...and i also sent him a text saying I was glad he was doing well. No response. So today he texted my husband this long text about how he hated to ask but he needs some money to get him through until he gets paid! He said is girlfriend suggested he ask us....this is after she did not respond to my text before he came back but called him and he cussed me out. I think my husband was a little sucked in to his good arguments but he did send him a text that he would not give him money but would take him to lunch. So then the maniipulative text came back to tell mom this and 2 weeks ago is whynwe have a **** relationship. So what if we give him money he is going to have a good relationship with us.....isn't that what we did for months??? Reality he has a roof over his head with girlfriend and I am guessing her mother is providing food... Anyway we are done. husband has a harder time I think although he agrees that we should not give him money. He asked for money sooner than I thought he would. I am getting clearer and clearer that I just need to keepnstepping back. Inwill catch up on posts and see how everyone else is doing. [/QUOTE]
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