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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 359093" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>Get a new therapist. This one has no brain and is delusional.</p><p></p><p>in my humble opinion the largest part of difficult child's love for horses is knowing she is keeping you away from them. She IS that mean, hateful, and disrespectful. I feel very sorry for ANY animal that has to be close to your difficult child in this situation. Horses require a HUGE amount of care and responsibility. Your difficult child cannot even handle minor responsibilities like being civil to family. The horse would be at BEST neglected, and likely actively abused as difficult child would take her hatred of you out on the horse you would have to FORCE her to see. Or, if you took over the horse because she refused to care for it, she would then sneak out to the horse and hurt it because you spent time with it and cared for it. She has ruined so many things for you. DO NOT let her ruin your love of horses. Just don't. Keep her away from horses unless she EARNS them by being out of your home and budget and not creating drama in your life (unless it is the drama of giving you a grandbaby in the framework of difficult child being in a healthy stable relationship and being a loving mother. If you are going to dream, dream big!).</p><p></p><p>difficult child has no concept of the real world. She wants to be a model - for the singing. She wants to join the military - to go shopping. She wants a horse - to spite you. NONE of these are realistic plans. She has deprived the entire family of SO MUCH, including a happy home. NO EFF'IN WAY does she get one more reward of ANY kind until she straightens up and flies right. Not a candy bar. </p><p></p><p>Tell difficult child the therapist is as delusional as she is. Stop the equine therapy until difficult child can pay for it herself. Get equine therapy for YOU. And a new therapist for difficult child. If this therapist works for a group practice, complain to the head of it. Or to the licensing board. Cause if you were to follow the advice everyone in the family would be victimized by difficult child again and an innocent horse would also be victimized. This therapist needs a reality check.</p><p></p><p>As for the life insurance, make SURE that difficult child is specifically taken OFF as beneficiary and left only something small in the will. She has hoovered enough resources from the other kids. (Just in my humble opinion, do what you feel is right, of course.)</p><p></p><p>Gentle hugs to you and husband and the other kids. Boot to the hiney for difficult child.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 359093, member: 1233"] Get a new therapist. This one has no brain and is delusional. in my humble opinion the largest part of difficult child's love for horses is knowing she is keeping you away from them. She IS that mean, hateful, and disrespectful. I feel very sorry for ANY animal that has to be close to your difficult child in this situation. Horses require a HUGE amount of care and responsibility. Your difficult child cannot even handle minor responsibilities like being civil to family. The horse would be at BEST neglected, and likely actively abused as difficult child would take her hatred of you out on the horse you would have to FORCE her to see. Or, if you took over the horse because she refused to care for it, she would then sneak out to the horse and hurt it because you spent time with it and cared for it. She has ruined so many things for you. DO NOT let her ruin your love of horses. Just don't. Keep her away from horses unless she EARNS them by being out of your home and budget and not creating drama in your life (unless it is the drama of giving you a grandbaby in the framework of difficult child being in a healthy stable relationship and being a loving mother. If you are going to dream, dream big!). difficult child has no concept of the real world. She wants to be a model - for the singing. She wants to join the military - to go shopping. She wants a horse - to spite you. NONE of these are realistic plans. She has deprived the entire family of SO MUCH, including a happy home. NO EFF'IN WAY does she get one more reward of ANY kind until she straightens up and flies right. Not a candy bar. Tell difficult child the therapist is as delusional as she is. Stop the equine therapy until difficult child can pay for it herself. Get equine therapy for YOU. And a new therapist for difficult child. If this therapist works for a group practice, complain to the head of it. Or to the licensing board. Cause if you were to follow the advice everyone in the family would be victimized by difficult child again and an innocent horse would also be victimized. This therapist needs a reality check. As for the life insurance, make SURE that difficult child is specifically taken OFF as beneficiary and left only something small in the will. She has hoovered enough resources from the other kids. (Just in my humble opinion, do what you feel is right, of course.) Gentle hugs to you and husband and the other kids. Boot to the hiney for difficult child. [/QUOTE]
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