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<blockquote data-quote="newstart" data-source="post: 747350" data-attributes="member: 22416"><p>Beta I think we keep trying with our troubled kids because family is everything and a well working funtional family is the biggest gift there is. I used to tolerate heavy abuse because it was the only communication I would have but it reality it was just dead communication that was very damaging to both of us. I decided NO contact was better for both of us. When I made the decision to go no contact I felt better immediately like tons got lifted off my shoulders. It took me years to get to that decision, but once I made that decision I went 100% with no back tracking. My daughter called her dad and asked if I would ever talk with her again. I prayed for my daughter often but felt so much relief not hearing her abusive words or actions or having to listen to her daily dramas or trying to get money from me. I remember telling my daughter she was a nightmare right before I cut ties.</p><p>I would and will do it again if she gets that bad. My daughter is always on the verge of doing something awful to me but stops herself because she knows I can and will cut her off.. Even now she does rude things to me but not as awful as years before. </p><p>I pray you have the strength to make the abuse end.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="newstart, post: 747350, member: 22416"] Beta I think we keep trying with our troubled kids because family is everything and a well working funtional family is the biggest gift there is. I used to tolerate heavy abuse because it was the only communication I would have but it reality it was just dead communication that was very damaging to both of us. I decided NO contact was better for both of us. When I made the decision to go no contact I felt better immediately like tons got lifted off my shoulders. It took me years to get to that decision, but once I made that decision I went 100% with no back tracking. My daughter called her dad and asked if I would ever talk with her again. I prayed for my daughter often but felt so much relief not hearing her abusive words or actions or having to listen to her daily dramas or trying to get money from me. I remember telling my daughter she was a nightmare right before I cut ties. I would and will do it again if she gets that bad. My daughter is always on the verge of doing something awful to me but stops herself because she knows I can and will cut her off.. Even now she does rude things to me but not as awful as years before. I pray you have the strength to make the abuse end. [/QUOTE]
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